No matter how old you are, please be a girl with a plansteemCreated with Sketch.

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When I was 20, I felt that my life was still very long and I had a lot of time to waste, but when I was 30, I suddenly felt that time is always fleeting, and before I can finish what I want to do, time is gone. .

Under such circumstances, I slowly forced myself to start planning my life. At the beginning, I might still be a little uncomfortable. After all, it is really not easy to get rid of laziness, procrastination, etc., but after a long time, I will find out , I am really happy to be a planned girl.

Because I will never be anxious because of procrastination, and I will not be distressed because of lack of time. The feeling of gaining and improving every day and every month makes me full of strength.

Now I am more and more fond of making plans for myself, and I also like to review. In this process, I no longer feel that life is a repetition of year after year. I have found my goal and direction, and also found Joy and happiness.

If you also want to make your life more fulfilling, then please be a girl with a plan. No matter what time comes, no matter what age you are now, start from this moment, start with these ten things, believe that after a period of persistence , You will change.
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Have your own hobbies, and try to persevere‍

A planned life is happy and happy, and pain is also painful, because planning your own life requires strong self-discipline to execute, which may be a bit difficult for many girls with lazy habits.

So my advice to you is to start with what you like, find a hobby, and try to stick to it.

Whether it’s dancing, illustration, playing piano, baking, fitness, or

traveling, because it’s something you like, it’s easier to stick to it. Through this thing to develop a good habit, and then integrate into your life, it may be even more Convenient way.

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Plan the time after get off work and let it add value to you‍

Please believe that making good use of your time after get off work is the best way to keep you away from others, because everyone is doing the same job when you go to work, but some people only know how to eat, drink and play after get off work, some people Will use this time to improve oneself, then after a period of accumulation, there will naturally be a difference.

I know some girls who don’t go to parties, sing songs, watch movies every day after get off work, and they don’t lie at home all the time watching dramas. Instead, they study hard, do research, exercise, and do many things that can improve themselves.

Don’t underestimate this period of time. It can make you unconsciously become a different yourself. At that time, your horizons will become broadened and you will no longer be struggling and sad about small things. At that time, you are right. Future plans will become more and more clear.

Learn to go to bed early and get up early to protect your body‍

Young people always have a problem, that is, they feel that the disease is still far away from themselves, and it is not necessary to take care of the body so early. Therefore, eat unhealthy food, stay up frequently, never exercise, and use these bad habits to erode the healthy body a little bit. .

There are too many young people around me who live in this way, so they have cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases at a young age, and some people even end up with sudden death.

This makes people have to reflect on whether we cherish our bodies while lamenting. If not, then please make a plan for yourself from now on, get rid of bad habits, and stick to exercise and fitness. Compared with studying and improving yourself, this matter is not too late.

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Know how to leave, whether it is for objects or feelings

When I was young, I always liked to buy things. I always felt that the more things, the happier. At that time, the same was true for relationships and work. I always felt that I had a lot and I felt safe.
But slowly growing up, I found that with too much load, we can't speed up, and even let ourselves go backwards because of these heavy burdens.

Therefore, I began to learn to leave, not to buy things that I don’t need, to throw away the things I don’t use frequently, to say no to people and things that don’t suit me, and to make my life minimal.

After doing this for a long time, I found a lot of personal time and space freed up in my life, so that I can think about life well, and let me learn to be calm and calm in a slow life.

If you also want to make your life a plan, you must learn to leave, you will feel how happy this life is.

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Maintain a good figure and maintain a good appearance‍

Around me, there are many girls who are out of shape in their early twenties and have very poor skin, but there are also many women around me who are well maintained in their 30s and 40s.

I think that beauty and figure are not the patent of a certain age, but the trophy of hardworking women. A woman who can maintain her appearance and control her figure does not do bad things because it is not easy to do.

Recently, I have been working hard to fight sugar, and I have not eaten those cake chocolates that I liked very much before. I found that my skin has improved, my figure has improved, and my mood has improved.

Please remember that maintaining a good figure and maintaining a good appearance is never to please others, but to let yourself always have the best self, because we deserve the best.

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Write at the end

No matter whether you are in good times or bad times, whether you are alone or accompanied, whether you are 18 or 50 years old this year, please be a planned person.

Because life is too short to be wasted at will, because a planned life is really beautiful.

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We get so comfortable with things that we have or around us and we tend to hold tight to it not minding that it's not needed in our lives at that point. The ability to "let go" of things one is accustomed to and no longer needs has to be intentionally developed.

This is a Beautiful piece@carelwolfaardt