I always feel that emotion is a complicated thing, because it not only requires us to be ourselves, but also the right time and place. Many times, we feel that we have worked hard enough, but the relationship ultimately ends up without a problem. It is not that we have not done enough, but that the other person is not the right person.

Of course, there are many times when your relationship does not have any major problems, and the other party is indeed very suitable for you. You just did not find a suitable way to get along with each other, which intensified the conflict and brought the relationship to an end.

After many years, you slowly matured, met someone similar to him, and moved towards the happiness you want. When you suddenly think of him at a certain moment, you still feel a bit regretful, because you were not mature enough at that time, so you pushed each other away in the most intense way, leaving regrets for yourself and the other party.

Therefore, we often say that it is a great regret to meet someone who wants to take care of for a lifetime when we are too young. In order to make myself less regretful, I would like to recommend these five good ways to get along with you. I hope you can work hard together to make the right relationship forever.

Know how to respect each other‍

Any good relationship is based on mutual respect. If you can keep each other in your heart, respect each other's wishes and consider each other's feelings, then you can naturally get along better.

On the contrary, if you always disrespect each other, many conflicts will inevitably arise. I have a friend’s predecessor who is like this, no matter what my friend does, he is all kinds of blows.
A friend wore a dress. He said, "You are so fat, and you are too ugly to wear." The friend wants to take your parents out on a trip. He says, "Are you rich? Don't spend money randomly." The friend wants to take the postgraduate entrance examination, he said. What are you messing about? What age are you?"

I admit that there will be disagreements in every relationship, but if you love each other, you should respect and accept it. Even if you can’t fully support it, at least don’t just hit it. After all, everyone has their own life. No matter how much you love, Individuals are also independent individuals.

Moreover, I also support that no matter who you are with, you should maintain an independent selves and don't give up too much for each other. Only this way of getting along can keep you fresh.

But here I must tell you, if you meet someone who is sarcastic no matter what you do, and he wants to deprive you of all your hobbies, then I advise you to leave early, because such a relationship is destined to be impossible. Bring you happiness and joy.

The best way to get along is to understand and respect each other. You gradually become someone who understands each other better, so that you can work together towards longer-term happiness.

Understand empathy‍

I found that most of the reason for the end of the relationship is because of selfishness. Both people think from their own standpoints and hope that the other side will pay more and change a little more. In this way, the heart is gradually chilled, and the feelings are naturally also. There is no more.

Two people from different original families must have many conflicts, ranging from planning for the future to living habits.

If we can think more from the other side’s perspective, we will be able to understand the reasons and reasons for the other side’s actions, and we will be able to complain less and be more happy. But if we only think from our own perspective, the better The more aggrieved, more and more painful.

I remember that I had a not-so-good relationship before. The other party always asked to change for him. I worked very hard and was very accommodating, but I couldn't reach his standard in any way. And I found that the more I kept breaking the bottom line, the more he went too far, and the more he didn't cherish it. Finally, I couldn't bear it and broke up.

The most ridiculous thing is that after I proposed to break up, he still didn't think about why I did it from my perspective, but blindly accused me and told me how injured he was.

That relationship made me understand that being with a selfish person is really a disaster. If we want to be happy, we must find someone who can understand you. You know that each other is not easy, and you can also be considerate of each other's last resort, face problems together, solve problems, and make happiness lasting and lasting.

Understanding is a long process and requires us to pay extra attention. If you really love that person, I believe you will know what to do.

Know how to tolerate and accommodate

I always suggest that you find someone who fits in your soul together, so that you can avoid many contradictions and problems. But there are really very few people in this world who can meet the right person right from the start, and most of them need to slowly grind the right response in a long-term relationship.

You can ask those old couples who are in golden marriage what is the secret of their happiness in this life. They may tell you that they just made do with it.

Yes, there must be problems in the relationship, but knowing how to tolerate and accommodate each other will definitely solve most of the problems. My boyfriend and I have completely different living habits. I don’t like spicy food, but he can’t eat spicy food at all. I like traveling, but he prefers homestay. I love studying and research, but he likes playing games.

At the beginning, we would quarrel and have all kinds of unhappiness, but we all firmly believe that the other person is the right person and are willing to change for each other.

He who doesn’t know how to eat spicy food started to try spicy hot pot. If he likes spicy food, I would also order non-spicy food for him. We traveled together and adapted to his living habits during the trip. We have In a large study room, I read books and he plays games. They do not interfere with each other, but they accompany each other.

I think this is the best happiness. We did not give up our hobbies, nor did we force the other person to change his preferences. We used tolerance and accommodation to create the best feelings.

If you love each other, then use this way to get along well, I believe you can also become "in step" people.

write at the end

A good relationship must not be perfect, but flesh and blood. You will be angry because of some of the other's actions, and you will hesitate because of some problems in your relationship, but you will work out ways to resolve these conflicts and create happy and sweet memories that belong to you.

This process may be very long and it may be full of entanglements, but in the end, you will find the most suitable mode of getting along with each other in mutual understanding, mutual accommodation, mutual protection, and mutual tolerance. It becomes the armor of your feelings and protects you from passing. Throughout your life, it has become your emotional ship, sending you to the other side of happiness.