The four standards of a good woman, have you met?steemCreated with Sketch.

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A good woman is not a good nanny. Asking her to be submissive to you, washing and cooking at home, and then not allowed to have any complaints, is simply unreasonable and unwelcome.

In fact, this kind of woman will not have a good influence on your life.

When a woman’s love for her husband becomes the whole of her life, and can no longer be separated from this love for a short time, or loves to the point that she loses herself, then such love will surely become a burden, and naturally cannot affect it. You, perfect you and become a better person.

The good influence between husband and wife is the influence of spiritual personality and the depth of thinking, so as to set off each other, and separate them into scenery.

This is why it is said that finding the right partner can change the destiny of one's life. For a man, being able to marry a good woman is the most critical decision in his life. It not only determines the height and level he can reach in the future, but also determines the lives of three generations.

But the premise is that there must be a correct knowledge and understanding of good women, and there must be no selfishness behind them.

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1. Be responsible for the family.

In marriage, she does not evade the responsibilities that she originally belonged to and should be borne by herself, and she does not require everything to be done absolutely, at least she is the caregiver of the family.

When the family needs it, it is incumbent, and at the same time, the family interests can be put first.

Taking the family as the center, no matter what the environment and the situation, do not forget that this is your own choice, and then be faithful to your choice and have the ability to self-discipline. Instead of just looking at yourself for fun, eating and drinking, and directly forgetting the heavy responsibilities of marriage.

In addition, the most rare thing is a down-to-earth attitude to life. I don't want to go up to the sky in one step, and there is a good thing to fall in the sky, so as to avoid causing disasters to the family and family.

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2. Vanity is not strong.

Don’t compare your own life with others all day long, knowing that everyone’s life has his own difficulties, and what we can see is only the surface.

Vanity can, at least not the type that can't see others doing better than yourself.

In fact, in a sense, everyone has a vanity side, but as long as they are not vanity and can stick to their principles and bottom line, they are considered to be a good woman worthy of respect.

As long as she is a human being, there is always material vanity, but she can strive for what she wants through her own hard work and struggle. She does not take shortcuts or impose her pursuit on her partner and force her. Your partner will do it for yourself, and will do what you can when it comes to spending money.

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3. Contentment understands gratitude.

The human heart is not enough to swallow the elephant, and the desires are endless. If a person cannot find a balance between infinite needs and limited gains, he will become a group of irrational anger.

There are only accusations, criticisms and ridicules towards your partner, as well as questioning your original decision time and time again.

Then the heavy life will weigh both people out of breath, and in this case, no matter how much changes the partner makes or how much achievements she has made, it is difficult to get her approval.

There is nothing wrong with wanting to live a better life, but the premise should be to cherish what is in front of you, and treat a better life as a pursuit, not a pursuit that must be achieved, if it can be achieved, it is just an unexpected gain, if not It can be achieved without upset and doubt.

People who don't know how to be grateful are no less horrible than a poisonous snake, because she will treat everyone's good to her as a ought.

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4. Kind and tolerant people.

A truly good woman will have various shortcomings or shortcomings, but these are not important, even if the temper is bad, even if the housekeeping ability is not enough, as long as the heart is kind.

It's definitely not the kind of vengeful, insidious, and calculating people, tired and worried when getting along.

A kind-hearted woman is compassionate. She thinks about other people's difficulties, and considers others' positions. Once it only aligns with the interests, or uses any means for personal interests, this will directly determine the direction and future of a family.

As for tolerance, she doesn’t like to care about others, and she doesn’t just talk about trivial things at every turn. Tolerating others is also to redeem herself, including tolerance to the shortcomings of her partner, because she can understand that people are not perfect, and the most important thing is to be able to do To respect, acceptance and tolerance, it always brings a feeling of spring breeze.

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Such good facts. Very interesting 🙂. Keep it up and write more like that. Thanks 👍😊

Very good points here. Tolerance, compromise and acceptance are particular areas of importance in my opinion. I think honesty and faithfulness should rank pretty high as well. I truly don't understand how so many people are willing to cheat on their spouse.