A person enters the society and has a life that truly belongs to him. This is not the beginning of success. If you want to be successful, you want to be as good as possible. In addition to seeing through human nature, it is important to understand certain social secrets.

If you want to be as good as possible, there are secrets to social life, the following 3 are very important

1. We must learn to be a human first.

Don't think that being a human being is like being upright. There are two things about being a human body: one is to say, and the other is to behave.

Talking less, not talking, right and wrong, not talking nonsense is an important principle of interpersonal communication, such as chatting with others, don't brag about how much you own, but learn to praise what others have.

Doing good deeds is worse than being able to do things. For example, when eating together, don’t wait to pay after eating. Those who pay first tend to make people more comfortable.

2. Be sure to borrow less or good money between friends.

Yes, money is a difficult word. It's hard to have money. It's hard to be afraid of others borrowing. It's even harder if you don't. Be sure to borrow less or no money among friends.

Too many failures in interpersonal relationships will fail in borrowing money. Those who borrow will lose face, and those who do not borrow will be afraid of losing friends and embarrassing each other, so try not to do it.

A really good person may have no money, but there must be a bottom line not to borrow money. This is the bottom line for communication between friends and the bottom line for preserving one's dignity.

3. Occasionally confused is a wise man.

Dazhi is foolish, talking about the wisdom of being a human being. If you want to be as good as possible, you must be a wise man who is confused occasionally. Confused, it's not that you don't understand, it's just that you can't tell it through. Confused, it's not that you are really stupid, but that you don't want to lose friends because of caress.

When socializing in life, we must learn to be confused at the right time. Facing someone who is stronger than oneself, being confused is a kind of stealing a teacher. When facing people who are weaker than oneself, being confused is a kind of wisdom to give respect to each other.