It is very easy to keep ourself strong when everything is going well but it is very difficult to keep ourself strong when our good times are over

in hive-120412 •  4 years ago 

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Many a time in our lives we go into a situation where we don't want to, when we go after problems all around. Whether it is a physical problem or a financial problem or a relationship problem !! Whenever we have these problems in our life, we become very weak. And it becomes very difficult to get out of this situation.

It is very easy to keep yourself strong when everything is going well but it is very difficult to keep yourself strong when our good times are over. And at such a time, people think of themselves as captive birds, for which it seems impossible to get out of this difficult situation. But that's not right !! No matter how hard times come to you - it's nothing.

If you consider yourself smaller than your problem then your problem will become much bigger. And if you think of yourself as bigger than the problem then many big problems will become smaller to you too !! Never forget that you are a human being. Not a bird. Man has the power of intellect, with the help of which man can make even the most difficult situation easier and make his own life happier !!

And if you're in a situation where you're having a hard time dealing with it, don't worry. Today's posts are just for you. So you must read the writings with patience in the end !! First of all, keep yourself positive. Now many may be wondering how to keep positive in this difficult situation. Then I say- When bad times come in our lives we only think negative things.

And instead of trying to recover, I wallow in my sadness and thus, experience more failure. So first of all accept the situation. And stop thinking about the problem again and again. Instead, think of these as actions that you must take on a regular basis. And how did you fix the problem in your old days !!

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Then it is - learn from the lives of others. If you say there are going to be a lot of bad times in your life. Then I will say - you are lying. Because you may not believe but have you seen those people ?? Those who can't see anything from a young age. That is, those who do not have eyes / blind. Have you seen them ??

Those who can't hear, can't even speak. Have you seen those who can't walk ?? Have you ever seen little children who have no parents and are orphaned? Have you ever seen people who can't eat at the same time?

Now maybe you heard my words and understood what I meant to you !!
Yes, that's what I meant. Your life full of difficult problems is a dream life for many !!

And if you compare your problem with the problems of these people - then your problem is nothing to them. You are much better than these. You are worried only because one of your hopes or desires is not fulfilled. So learn about the problems in your life. The time you call bad today - it will not be after the next five years. Your life may change !!

But think about it - will it be the same with those people ?? Those who have no eyes / no hands / no legs !! So when no one is around you you can be motivated to see someone else's life !!

And at the end of it all, I will say - start reading motivational books / writing or watching motivational videos !!
I think this is the easiest way out of a difficult problem. So you read books. Read biographies of great people.

Because no great man has ever been great without dealing with problems. So learn from their lives. There are also many motivational books that will make you feel inside.

Believe it or not, reading a book or writing like this will make you stronger. And that's what I'm saying from my personal experience.

And once you get motivated- you get what you want !!
Thanks !!

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