Without success your core in this world is zero. If you are not successful or if you do not earn money then this society will not evaluate you, just as the people close to you will forget you.
So will your evaluation to your parents will be greatly reduced. Even if it sounds bad, this is the reality.
Suppose a magistrate's house is 2 km away from your house. If someone asks you, where is your house? Distance 2 km. Now suppose there is an unemployed or a thief's house next to your house. Now if someone asks you where your house is, you forget that your house is next to his house. This is the reality.
People survive on their own merits and the weight of money. So don't worry about the lives of others, think about your own life. Use your time, make yourself hardworking. Then society, family will all remember you.