It is very important to speak more humorous

A person who speaks humorously and witty is often welcomed by people, which is why these actors and comedians are so popular.

Humor is a kind of high-level intellectual activity that can defuse the opponent's anger and reduce the opponent's anger. Therefore, in the process of language use, good use of humor can help achieve your own goals.

Humorous language can release our inner tension and stress and turn it into a relaxed smile. In communication, humor is like a lubricant, which can effectively reduce the "coefficient of friction" between people, resolve conflicts and contradictions, and enable us to calmly get rid of the difficulties that may be encountered in communication.

Once, a woman walked into the food store angrily and shouted to the salesperson: "I asked my son to call the jam at your place, why is there a shortage of money?"
The salesperson was taken aback for a moment, and then answered politely: "Please go back and weigh the child to see if he is getting heavier."
The mother changed his mind and suddenly realized that her anger disappeared. She calmly and but embarrassedly said to the salesperson: "Oh, I'm sorry, I misunderstood."
Here, the salesperson knows that she can't make a mistake, and there is one possibility left, that is, the child ate the jam. If you clearly say "I can't make a mistake, it must be your son who stole the food", or "You don't trouble your son, but ask me if I am wrong, it is really inexplicable", this will not only not calm the anger of customers, but on the contrary Will cause a bigger controversy.

Therefore, the salesperson used a humorous and euphemistic tone to point out the problems that the women had neglected. This not only maintained the credibility of the store, but also avoided a quarrel and won praise from customers.