Many are moments when we reflect on our children playing with innocence, wondering whether we are good parents doing their educational role well. Then we blend our memories of the past and our childhood with their sweet and bitter, and the challenges and difficulties that we see in the future that society is so harshly hiding for the very same things.
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Everyone needs to be aware that the child actually needs us to develop his or her social skills in a blurred and sustained way through our daily dealings with him or her: While playing or when he performs his homework, even in his natural rituals of sleep, eating, and spending special things.
Our words, words and features will therefore be crucial in shaping the personality of our children, strengthening their self-confidence and developing their ability to overcome the many psychological and behavioural difficulties that will not emerge until years later. We may not be able to make up for it.
Before it's too late to have your child grow up in an inspiring environment full of positivity, you better be the reason for his happiness and inspiration, so don't hesitate to wonder with yourself how you treat your child positively? And it would be good to tell him whenever there's a chance:
1- We love you very much.
2- You make us happy.
3- I miss you so much when I'm absent.
4- I will do the impossible to feel safe.
5- It will not always be possible to say “yes”.
6- I trust you.
7- I know that you will succeed in the mission.
8- You are creative.
9- You have beautiful ideas.
10- You deserve it.
11- You are strong.
12- You can object.
13- We respect your choices.
14- You are my best friend.
15- You're cute.
16- You can change your mind.
17- You will learn from your mistakes.
18- You can ask for help.
19- You need to learn.
20- You grow up fast.
21- I believe you.
22- You are interesting.
23- You are still beautiful, even though you made a mistake.
24- What are you thinking now?
25- How did you do that?
26- Thank you for your help.
27- I enjoy playing with you.
28- I am happy to talk to you.
29- I am listening to you.
30- I am proud of you and thank ALLAH that I have a child like you.
Most of us are not accustomed to these phrases, this is for sure, but it is not difficult to adhere to even a few of them, you will see the result in the future, your child will never forget those words that come out of your heart and repeat them in his ears. My father’s words are still ringing in my ears at this moment, even after many years have passed.
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