The older women are, why do they like younger men more? Two widowed women tell the truth, reality

Love has no age limit, like most people in this world, they can pursue their own freedom.

The essence of love seems to be dictated by nature, but in fact, it is determined by human needs.

A person's need for primitive physiology will make that person choose to be with the opposite sex. One's need for spiritual assistance makes this person choose love.

It can be said that physical needs are the basis of all love, and friendship with spirits is inevitable for all love to sublimate.

What do you think about choosing a partner in love?

According to some people, when choosing a mate, you have to choose someone who is your age, otherwise you will get tired and even fear that these people will not get along.

In the eyes of a small group of people, as long as it was love, it could definitely exceed the age limit. Whether it is love between young and old, or love at twilight, it is the embodiment of special love.

If you come across an old woman who suddenly falls in love with a young man, what do you think?

Surely many people would say that it is not normal for a woman so old to fall in love with a man so young?

In fact, from the point of view of different people, there may be different opinions.

So, let's hear what these two widowed women have to say.

Anna: I have been widowed for three years, I just want to find a young man to live my life

Anna is really a city person, she grew up in the city since she was little, and her personality and mind are more open-minded.

When she was 60 years old, her 65-year-old husband died unexpectedly, leaving her alone in the old house.

And what about a pair of children? Her son works hard abroad and rarely returns home, as if he is a family with a foreign woman and gives birth to a child.

And his daughter married out of town for love ten years ago. and he rarely met him at all.

Therefore, Anna, who was alone and widowed, became even more lonely, and she didn't feel happy at all.

At a party, 63 year old Anna met a 53 year old middle-aged man. These two people, as soon as they met, they looked at each other and talked non-stop.

During a one-on-one conversation, Anna discovered that she had a favorable impression of this man, and this man seemed to be in love with herself.

Since then, at Anna's request, men often visit her house as guests. And Anna doesn't care about the outside rumors, but how to live happily.

To use Anna's words, it means, "A person lives forever, seeing nothing, but living happily, physically and mentally, that is enough."

Tamara: I have been widowed for years, I just wanted to find someone to get rid of my loneliness

Tamara, who lived in the countryside all her life, her husband died when she was 55 years old. During her ten years as a widow, she had lost hope in life.

Could it be that she really missed her late husband? That is not true. But he felt a lonely and unbearable feeling in his heart.

From then on, she had always wanted to find a man to comfort her for the rest of her life, so that she could see the sparkling sun setting in the evening.

Then, by chance, she met a young man whom she liked more.

The young man is actually his ballroom dance coach. Even though the other party is more than ten years younger than me, I still really love each other, because the other party makes him feel warm.

In every dance, Tamara really enjoys the coach's hug, which reminds her of how she felt when she was young.

Tamara is also very honest, she tells her kids what she wants. And the children are also caring people, even they agree with the choice of the mother.

Therefore, whatever outsiders think, Tamara always likes to dance with that coach, even if she can't live together, she can hang out with him and warm the rest of his life.

In Tamara's view, love knows no boundaries, as long as you want to love, then you must dare to pursue it.

Here, the question arises, why do women prefer younger men as they get older?

Many people will think that this woman does not pay attention to the ways of women, and the red apricot is coming out of the wall.

But is this really the case? It's impossible to "kill the boat with one stick". Because of your age, it has nothing to do with whether you pursue love or not.

As long as people can stick to their own positions and understand certain principles, they can actually pursue their love with integrity.

What are positioning and principles?

This means that when you are pursuing love, you have to take care of your own family as well as the families of others, and you must not dazzle your mind for temporary love.

Even if people's feelings are blind, if they are too blind and have no essence, then such feelings are the poison of time, which will make the person who touches them "poisonous".

Therefore, whether it is a girl or a boy, as long as they can communicate in ethical terms and can love each other at the right time, that is sufficient.

As long as everything does not violate the interests of themselves or the interests of others, then what will happen to this love is left to time to judge.