The more you like him, the more careful you are, afraid of disappointment, injury, and fear that you are not good enough, afraid of everything that hasn't happened yet, so I prefer to keep a proper distance, look far away, and don't want to get close to each other. others and fight for themselves once., Some people will keep their love secret for months or even years, until there is no more chance.
Some people fear the wrong choice. When I was in college I was afraid I chose the wrong answer to ABCD, I always chose A then crossed it to C, after graduating I was afraid I would continue to study and choose the wrong job. Each of them has their own advantages. I am afraid that I will regret it if I choose one., I received invitations from different companies. I go to this company and worry about the bad environment, and when I go there, I worry about bad treatment.
From living to living, to eating and sleeping, we spend each day in a variety of choices, and we always encounter some regret and regret. That's why there is a word that people often talk about: "Difficulty in choosing."
Actually, are we really that hard to choose?
Two very nice people admit to you at the same time that you are caught up in attachments and doubts, as if choosing anyone is good, and it doesn't seem good to choose anyone.
Two very beautiful clothes are placed in front of you, and you get caught up in entanglement and doubt, as if you look good at all, but the money on the card is only enough to buy one.
Imagine living a gentle and meaningful life like a friend around you, but when you wake up each morning, you get tangled up and doubt again. Why don't you start tomorrow?
In fact, however we choose, we may face regret after choosing, we only worry about facing this regret after we are entangled and uncertain. But there is only one life, and everyone's life is different. There is no life experience to replicate and you can still live happily, and no life experience can fully apply to you. Before you decide on your choice, everything is unknown.
But why?
When you are in love, you feel that your first love is the best; when you become a parent, you feel that the first parents of your child are the most beautiful. In many cases, this first experience is also very valuable because it will make you remember deeply and will last forever in your mind. Even if you have regrets or regrets, it will be a beacon to show you the way in the future.
Life is short and there is only one time, when in doubt, it is better to have a new mentality and feel the freshness and throbbing for the first time. When sorry, it's better to ponder. Even if you make other choices, you will run into various shortcomings and difficulties. Don't just look at the bad things in front of you, think about the goodness of the other options.
When you can't choose the result, don't get caught up in the strengths and weaknesses of the two options, but ask yourself, what do you want in your heart? I want to fight for something.
Some people love to paint, but they never learn and have no talent, but you love it. Painting can make you happy, so you can try it as a hobby; some people like musical instruments. I can 'I don't understand the staff, chanting and tune, but if you don't try it, it will be a regret that you will never forget. During the trying process is happy, even if there is no achievement in the end?
Don't let attachments and doubts take up more time, don't let regret delay your process, do what you want to do, love the person you want to love, live the life you want to live, even if you choose Salah, at least it deserves your heart. alone, this worthy can only be experienced once, a short and precious life!