Should I delete love?

All beings in the world experience the beginning and the end. Likewise, meeting and separation exist in love. Love begins through meetings, deepens emotions, and gradually cools down, and then breaks up. That is, creation and destruction. The problem is not love, but the breakup in it.

The two lovers in the 2004 movie'Eternal Sunshine' one day erase each other's memories. Joel, who has a normal personality, and Clementine impulsive, and Clementine, who had a difficult relationship unlike the beginning, erases all of Joel's memories. Joel, who is shocked to see a lover who can't remember herself in everyday life, also undergoes memory removal. Most of the movies are held in Joel's memory of being deleted. Can we be happy if we erase love before the end of love? Rather, Joel feels despair in the erased memories.

Hot or cold, water is water. Every moment of love cannot be thrilling. There are complex emotions in love: joy, happiness, ecstasy, sadness, regret, and pain. It is impossible to get rid of only sadness in love. Sadness is also possible because there is an object that made me feel ecstatic and happy. Likewise, in the movie, rather than erasing partial memories of an object, the entire memory is removed. The end is always waiting for the beginning we choose. Of course, it is important to start carefully, but I think it is also mature love to accept the end humbly.

Are there any mature people in front of the breakup? The two main characters in the movie have this conversation in front of the disappearing memories. “It will disappear forever, what should I do?”, “I should enjoy” It is sad that the objects of love gradually disappear from each other's memories. However, since there is happiness of love before the pain of separation, one way to deal with separation is to be grateful for the time we spent together beyond sadness, and to think about it. What we need to do for a mature breakup is to look back.

Think of the warm sunlight that we would have enjoyed before pain and sorrow. Could there be blemishes like the title of the movie? Knowing what is of valuable value can be gained through experience. It is up to the individual to decide where to focus.