Incredible India monthly contest of January #1|Goal that I want to achieve in 2025.

I am very happy that I made it to the new year, all thanks to God almighty for making it possible. In every new year, we all have goals that we intend to achieve, and in this contest, I will tell you all about my goals for the year, and I pray I achieve all of them.

Share the purpose you set for 2025!

For the year 2025, my first aim is to gain admission into the university and study computer science.
It is the dream of everyone to become a graduate because it is a thing of joy and gratitude, my parents didn't go to the university so for their son to become a graduate they will be very proud of me.

I have passed my examinations and submitted an application to study in one of the universities in my country. Hopefully, before the end of the month, I will get my long-awaited admission into the university.
Even though the rate of unemployment in my country is becoming alarming, they are still people who get job in the country, and I believe I will be one of them. Nevertheless, my field is self-employed, and I will do my best to graduate with a good grade.

Serving your nation as a corper is a thing of joy, and this can only be fulfilled when you graduate from higher institutions

I will also try to stay away from people who will destroy my life. Sometimes, the friends and people around us are the ones killing us.
So, I will work very hard this year to achieve my dream and also on this platform. I want to achieve my second dolphin 🐬 before the end of the year, and this will be achieved through hard work and consistency.

Becoming a member of the Nigerian Navy is my main iam to achieve this year, I have successful applied for it and I am patiently waiting for the shortlist so that i can write their examination and aftwr writing it hopefully I am successful and then I will be invited for the interview.

This time around, I have consulted someone who is the Navy for assistance and guidelines so that i can be successful this time around.

I have applied for this job several times, but I was unsuccessful, so this time around I have decided to take no chances at all and hopefully God in his infinite goodness will grant me my heart desires.

Which things have you decided not to repeat this year?

I have decided to focus on my life and leave chasing women because they are distractions in my life, if you want to be successful in life as a man you have to forget about being in any relationship until you become successful, women nowadays especially in Nigeria loves money too much and when you have a girlfriend you need to give her money to take good care of herself.

This was a mistake I made last year and I regretted every bit of it so for this year making money and taking good care of my family is my main priority instead of chasing women who will end up destroying your life.

Trusting people, this year I have decided not to trust anyone because humas are deceitful and wicked, I will try my possible best to work in secret this year and when I am successful they will only hear my successful story.
In life try to keep your personal life secret to yourself because humas can't be trusted, I did this last year and most of my plans crashed because I trusted the wrong people, for this year I will work in silence and let God reward me in silence.

Do you believe mistakes are the best teachers to rectify ourselves? Justify.

Yes, for me, I do believe that when we make mistakes and we learn from it, it makes us know our worth and also what we are capable of doing.
In life mistakes are mean to happen and if it happens to us we learn from it especially when we trusted the wrong people and they end up betraying we then realised that sometimes being alone is the best option because you will only think about yourself and nothing else.

I have made some mistake last year that somehow jeopardise my plans of the year, instead of applying for admission into the university and also applying for other job opportunities I only concentrate on one option and it ended up not working, I was devastated and sad but that period made me to know my worth as a person I started discovering some aspect of my life that I never knew before, I learnd from my mistakes and now I am trying all options that are available because God has a plan for everyone.

I believe some of us have made mistakes in life, and when we discover the mistakes, we realise how important we are to some people in life.
Like my friend who nearly committed suicide because ofba girl that left him, forgetting that he has parents and siblings who so much about him.
When we confronted him and told him how important he was, he was very happy and he didn't commit the suicide.

In life mistakes must happen so that we can learn from it and also become better in life, I believe everyone of us in some point of our life have made mistakes that nearly cost us so much in our life but after realising it, it taught us many lessons about how we should go about out life.
Sometimes, we learn from the mistakes of others, and sometimes, others learn from our own mistakes that are like for you.

I was once in a relationship with a lady and she treated me like a trash, as a man you should never beg a lady for anything because the one who will love you will not lat you beg for anything.
I was so much in love with her, and she ended up dumping me for no genuine reason, I was in a very traumatic state and also heartbroken but during that period I discovered I deserved better and she doesn't deserve me either.

It was then that I focused more on myself built me self confidence around women and also focused more on things that made me happy, during that period I created many quality content in the steemit platform and also spend more time in steemit then I use to, because I discovered my worth and realised that u need to make more money.

^{I am inviting @deepak99, @josepha, @pandora2010 and @goodybest to participate in this wonderful contest}