I have been married for 4 years. how about 5 years? I don't know exactly anymore. Don't tell my wife, because she'll kill me.
But were marriages created in heaven? No. Maybe some very religious people believe that, but I don't. Not at all.
Marriages are made by people for people. More specifically, it is for the church and money and moral principles. People who follow certain rules in life have great respect for marriage. Such people are already programmed in their heads that marriage is sacred and they will marry only the person who deserves it. So such a person must also have a similar mindset. Thinking based on principles.
Of course, I am not saying that this is a bad approach. I don't want to marry anyone either. But I don't see marriage as something necessary in life. Marriage is made for money. In my country, you have to pay a lot of money to get married. I don't know how it is in other countries, but I say that the church and marriage are just a typical leap for money.
A marriage worth having is one of love. Two people must love each other 100% and be together for better or worse. It is possible but you have to take great care of it. Nowadays, people no longer remember the basic most essential values of a person, which is why so many people get divorced or get married for money or a child. If two people love each other and both want to get married, then cash or anything else will never come first. Such marriages are real marriages.
For a marriage to be happy, only understanding and the ability to talk between partners is enough. Every problem in life can be solved. You just need to want and have a positive attitude to life. Simple? It sounds simple, but it's not. Man learns everything with age.
The reason for the divorce of most marriages is the inability to talk. Some people also get married too soon for a child or some other reason. Often parents force a wedding, and when the couple who are to take this wedding is not sure of their love, then later there are divorces. You have to be 100% sure of that.
I invite:
@goodybest
@bambuka
@stef1
@wilmer1988
@arispranata5
Hi friend Your wife must hear this! Gosh I was laughing out so loud!! But don't worry your little secret is safe with us.
You're right love is understanding, and having the technique to always talk things over and ironing out any issues. Then commitment matters too. Success!
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