Steemit Engagement Challenge S10/W3 I I do believe marriages are made in heaven.

in hive-120823 •  2 years ago  (edited)

Hello Everyone!

Today, while scrolling and looking for communities for some good contest to take part in. I liked the community “Incredible India”, and decided to take part in it today.

So, the contest is basically about marriage and here is my view on it.

Do you believe marriages are made in heaven? Share your opinion.

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Yes, I do believe marriages are made in heaven. As, from birth we have been hearing that everything is written, your birth, your life partner and your death date too. Everything and everyone we meet in your journey of life is destined. Some people come in our life to teach us some life lessons and some people stay and help us to cross the path in our journey of this beautiful life. And, marriage is that beautiful phase in one’s life, where you and your soulmate decides to be the part of each others life journey and enjoy every ups and downs together.

Which marriage do you prefer, arranged or love? Why?

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I prefer a marriage where there is love, understanding and respect for each other. It doesn’t matter whether the marriage is arranged or love. As, I have seen the best kind of arranged marriages and the even the worst love marriages. Still, if I have to choose between arranged and love marriage, I will preferably choose love marriage because in love marriage we already know each other and there is more of understanding and comfort level.
Even the communication is easy with someone whom we have known for few months or years.

According to you what is the definition of a happy married life?

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Happy married life is all about communicating, accepting, taking responsibilities and the most important is shredding their ego. And, I think partners must keep making some efforts to keep that spark alive in their married life. For example: Planning dates every 3-4 weeks, listening and asking each other about their day, spending some time together everyday, spending 10-15 minutes cuddling, hugging and showing some attraction to your partner everyday.

Share some reasons behind the increase in mental distance and separations.

I think lack of communication is the main reason behind mental distance and separation. As many people assume that his or her partner should behave in certain ways or show love in certain manner. But, every individual is different and the love language of every person is different, without communicating your partner won’t know your needs and desires. So, main reason is lack of communication.

So, here is an end to my contest. Do support let me know your views on it.

Thank you:)

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Hello,
@manisha.jain9,

First of all, thank you for participating in our Community Engagement Challenge. I really enjoyed reading your post and was impressed by your hand drawn sketches.

But since you have already started power down, I could not evaluate your post properly. If you want, you can stop power down and join our community and work as a regular user. Contact us on Discord for more information. I invite you to join our family. Stay well. Thank you. 🙏

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Hello @sampabiswas!

Thank you so much for your appreciation. I am really sorry, I didn't know about this power down rule. I have now cancelled my power down after seeing your comment.

Thank you for reading my post ☺️

You are welcome @manisha.jain9. I request you to join our community. Please read all the pinned posts of our community, and contact us if you have any questions. We will surely help you. Stay blessed🙏.

I am not able to join the discord. While trying to join it shows "This invite might be expired or might not have permission to join. Could you please help me with this.

Thank you:)

Hello I love your sketch work, it's beautiful and full of meaning, that marriage is a lifetime union, I agree with you communication is the lifeboat of any relationship, and each person has his/her love language, mine is word of assurance, and gift, may I know yours?

Hey! Thank you so much for your appreciation. I am really glad that you liked my sketch and my view point on marriage. My love language is spending quality time together .

Awe it's good to know! Thanks for sharing


Hello dear, @manisha.jain9


  • It doesn't matter if it's an arranged marriage or love. You are right in saying this. You talk about mutual understanding which is really what we need to have. Because marriage is something that cannot be changed at will. That's why we should respect each other. Communication Is About Divorce It is true that maintaining communication among ourselves is of utmost importance to us. Because anything, if we don't take care of it properly, it will be wasted. And he said cuddling with partner for 10-15 minutes is also very effective and should be done.

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Hello! Thank you so much for stopping by and appreciating my post.