Incredible India monthly contest march #2 //My unforgettable incident of 2022.

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I am @nasir04 from 🇧🇩 #bangladesh

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How are you all? I hope you are all well with the blessings of the great creator. Alhamdulillah, I am very well by the mercy of Almighty God.

Today I am here to participate in the monthly contest organized by our official community account @meraindia. This time the topic of the contest is :

So without further ado let's get started,,,

What was your most unforgettable incident of 2022

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See, a year is a lot of time. And it only takes a few seconds to create thousands of important or unforgettable moments in our lives.

So I am going to share a special event with you from among all the unforgettable events that happened in my life in 2022.

The time is June 2022. This incident happened when my father was staying at Mohakhali Cancer Hospital in Dhaka. My father had cancer in the stomach. That is, he had this fatal disease due to irregularity in eating.

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After staying with father for a long time in Mohakhali, after completing all his tests with great difficulty, the date of father's cancer operation was fixed. We had to burn a lot of wood in Mohakhali Cancer Hospital to treat father's cancer. Every day we four people went to father's various reports and tests. I used to laugh. That's why on the day when the date of aunt's operation was fixed, we were all very happy. I thought to myself, this time the person will probably recover. After the treatment, maybe his pain will decrease.

On the day the father was supposed to be operated on, another patient was placed on the operation bed in the next room along with his serial. His operation did not begin because the person who would give him blood had not yet arrived.

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So his son came running to us and said, brother, your father's blood group and my mother's blood group are the same. The person who will give my mother's blood is stuck in the jam, that's why he's coming late, but meanwhile my mother's operation is stopped, please give me a bag of blood. When my mother's operation starts, when my donor arrives, you will take the blood.

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Then my uncle said that some time ago, the nurses took our patient with all the accessories and the blood to the operation theater. After some time a nurse came and said sir calling any one of you in. Mama said you stay I am going.

After a while, uncle came out with a grimace and said, "Your father's body is still not fit for surgery." After giving another bag of blood to the body, the doctor said that he would have to operate after two days. Hearing this, everyone got up. Because there is no blood in the hospital blood bank (B-). The blood that has been given so far was added to the donor with great difficulty. And now there is no donor.

My brother called many places for blood. But no one could find any blood. So I was forced to give blood. But my younger uncle refused. But the brother said that now there is no other way, saying that he went to the blood donation counter of the hospital. The nurses there refused to take his brother's blood, they said that we cannot take blood from his body. A bag from the body.

So my brother was forced to collect a bag of blood from his own body from a private clinic outside the hospital for his father. However, on the way from the clinic to the hospital, he received a call from his uncle saying, "Bring the blood as soon as possible, isn't your father in good condition?"Hearing this, the brother gave blood to his uncle and told him to go to the hospital immediately, father's emergency blood will be needed. Saying this, the brother lay down on a bench on the side of the road.

Without paying attention to brother, uncle hurriedly took the blood and ran to the hospital. After lying down for some time, brother also ran after uncle to the hospital. When uncle ran and gave the blood bag to the doctor, the doctor started blood circulation in father's body. But that blood entered the father's body only for 12 seconds. After 12 seconds, the blood stopped entering the father's body😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭😭.

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In spite of this incident, that boy came to us again and asked for blood. The nurses said that the blood in Enna's father's body was not completely gone. He gave me the rest of the blood and I took it to my mother. But the nurse said that it is not right to give the blood of one patient to the body of another patient. The situation could be worse. But the boy still wants to talk to the nurses.

He said the donor who was supposed to come lied to me and demanded 1500 rupees for car rental of 100 rupees. I gave all the money. But after taking the money, he covered his body. He played with my mother's life by telling lies. Now my mother cannot be saved if blood is not given immediately.

While saying this, the man saw all the doctors coming back from his mother's operation theater. One of them told the boy that his mother is no longer alive.

What have you learned through the incident? Describe,,

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I have learned a lot through the incident. I have seen how difficult time becomes at the moment of need. How confusing.

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All of us should collect more blood or donor than the demand for a patient before the operation. However, the donors must be refined. If you sit with your arms folded hoping for the blood of unknown donors, maybe the boy we met in our seven will be in the same situation. Maybe you You may lose a loved one.

Therefore, always at an important time, you want to keep the amount of stock in order to meet the demand so that there is no problem later.

What message would you like to convey to your friends after experiencing the incident?

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After the said incident happened to me, I would like to give a message to the chamar friends, that is:

Never have the mindset of being dependent on others in times of crisis. Always try beyond your means to keep more reserves than your demand.

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If you also need blood for the operation of a patient like us, then try to get help from your close people. Because even if outsiders come to help you, they will only come for the greed of money. And we know how important money is in times of danger. So help those close to you. Neele is better according to me. Because they understand your situation.

CONCLUSION

I think those who are bananas about donating blood are not human children. They have no compassion, no humanity. Such heartless people have no right to live in the world.

The incident shared with you may really stick in my mind for the rest of my life. Because I would never have believed this incident if it had not happened in front of me. I don't understand how one person can play with another person's life.

As per the contest rules I am inviting @jyoti-thelight @yousafharoonkhan depak94 @rezaul-420 @ripon0630 @nadiaturrina to this contest.Hope you also participate in this contest and share with us some unforgettable event of 2022 in your life.

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