Free Your Burden Contest

Is it okay to make a complaint? I have seen sometimes users complain as a way of steaming off. When they do not get the desired result they jump to the conclusion that they were ill-treated and so a complaint is the only solution. That's how they wish to manipulate their issues. I agree by venting some of our feelings, we can definitely reduce the stress of our mental feelings. But in most cases, users experience a negative result, and the result comes in the form of more complaints.

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“I hate to complain...No one is without difficulties, whether in high or low life, and every person knows best where their own shoe pinches.”
― Abigail Adams

I don't believe in complaining because complaining constantly can frustrate me in the end I could eventually lose my confidence. However, it can be a useful tool only if I have a constructive suggestion in case the complaint is not personal but in a wider perceptive or in the welfare of the community as a whole. It will definitely help reduce the stress and frustration of the complain maker as well.

"Excessive complaints can be a negative sign of one's mental health"

In some cases complaining is fine. If you feel there is something wrong, you can go through the proper channel and register your protest. Like I have done a couple of times to the concerned admins of that particular community even if it was not in my self-interest. What's wrong if I tell them what's the right way of doing something, after all, I am an educated man and have held responsible posts in the corporate world who knows right and wrong.

In some cases complaining is not okay. In case you're not aware of the rules but you feel that a complaint will rectify your problem, My dear friend, it might even worsen things for you in the future so avoid being too critical. If you feel that your complaint is genuine, go ahead else the complaint is not okay.

And finally, there is always a right or wrong way and your intention behind a complaint. If your intention is to correct yourself, you are absolutely fine, go ahead and talk to authorities in a polite way and do it.

Why complain? Simply as it can be helpful to better understand the rules and what's expected from the members of the community. Users should complain if they have a genuine reason. Some factors play a positive role but some bring negative results.

Users should express frustration or talk to admins and mods about their feelings, both positive and negative. When they face difficulty in certain situations, they should seek the opinion of those in power but in a manner that doesn't place them in an awkward position.

See you have asked me to suggest if I should make complaints openly and I am doing so in a way that will put my point across but I don't think anyone would mind any of the points I am writing in this post.

Sometimes people complain as a way of managing their emotions. By venting their feelings, they hope to reduce the severity of these distressing feelings. I am sure, all of us have something to say, so do I but I don't want to make mess of my problems. I will bring them here but through the proper channel.

Do you even know that we can always show our problems but in a positive way? We can share stories about our problems so we feel better. But mind you that negative feelings will always ruin our mood. We should make complaints but in a polite way.

I firmly believe that complaining with a purpose is fine and essential, especially when up for a good cause. I have done this thrice in the last few days through a proper channel and in a proper manner. I am not in favor of washing dirty linen in public.

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Thanks @f2i5 for this oppoertunity.

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