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When discussing life issues there is a poem by a famous writer Buya Hamka that is so touching for the lives of all of us, he said, "Life is not just life, pigs in the forest also live. Work is not just work, apes in the forest also work."

The poem contains a deep meaning and philosophy of life, meaning that in this life we are not like the life of animals in the forest. Human life is a test to continue to do good, increase charity, and multiply worship. Because the worship we do today is just like we are planting plants and we will harvest our plants later on the Day of Judgment by getting heavenly rewards. Amen.

When other children just say they want this and that and then their parents make it happen. Then what about the orphans? Their life struggles are very difficult, when they have a wish they can only swallow the bitterness of the tongue and sweep away the tears.

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How do you understand the meaning of "Life is an endless struggle" in everyday life?

The end of human life is death, then if we are currently alive and given a healthy body then the struggle of life has never ended. This means that as long as we are alive we still need to continue to struggle to face all the twists and turns of life and the problems that exist.

The life struggle of every human being is actually the same, starting from the mother's womb, while the finish line of the life struggle is death. As long as we are alive the struggle never ends, everyone's struggle is different according to the goals they want to achieve. If you don't have a life goal then what is there to fight for?

In my opinion, when talking about the struggle of life, of course our life struggle is not too difficult, do you know who has the hardest time facing life? They are the ones who have a harder time facing life, they are children who have been orphaned since childhood.

Indeed, the fate of everyone's life is different, try for a moment to close our eyes to imagine how difficult it would be to live this life if since childhood we became orphans? When other children have a wish, they can just tell their parents, but orphans when they want something can only swallow the bitterness of the tongue and tears because they cannot hope in anyone.

In addition, being an orphan is a struggle of life that is so heavy because since childhood never felt together with parents, never felt the attention and affection like other children in general. But it is all the will of the creator, no matter how difficult life must still be lived.

Tell us about one personal challenge you faced and your approach to it?

Would you like to know one personal challenge that I am currently facing? Is one enough when I have five. At the moment I really want to have a baby or children, this is a tough challenge because the desire to have a baby is the will of God the creator. As a couple who has been married for three years, having a baby is the biggest desire for me and my partner. However, I can only pray and try my best.

In addition, the closest challenge to this issue is when friends, relatives, and family ask, "How come you don't have children yet?" This is a difficult question for us to answer, and inside we feel very devastated from questions like this.

Not to mention if your parents ask "When will grandparents be able to hold grandchildren?", sometimes we are speechless getting questions like that, our hearts feel sad and our eyes seem to want to shed water.

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In essence, although we have tried hard and have a strong desire to have a baby, but that desire can only be realized by Allah SWT. So having children, getting a soul mate, smooth sustenance is all only God who determines it in our lives, as his servants we can only always try, try, try, and pray.

Why do I say try three times, yes that's the reality because there is no human on this earth who is able to regulate God's will.

How have you overcome these challenges? Describe the concrete steps you have taken.

To deal with this, of course we made serious efforts so that the desire to have a baby could be realized soon. We have visited several doctors and consulted with them, we got a lot of advice and we have practiced it in our daily lives.

Among them are implementing a healthy lifestyle, maintaining a diet, not staying up late at night, taking herbal medicines, and diligently carrying out sports activities. And the sport that I do most often is playing badminton, while his wife does cardio exercises. According to stemian friends here, what else should be done? If so, please provide additional solutions in the comments column.

Is there support from those closest to you in your struggle?

_{They are the closest people who always encourage, motivate, and support our lives.}

It is indeed hard to face the challenges of this life, therefore until now my wife and I have remained strong to face it thanks to the help and support of our closest family, friends and companions. We really appreciate all the people who have supported us so far including those who have recommended several places of treatment, suggested taking certain drugs, there are even friends who are loyal to accompany us to do healthy exercise together so that our goal of having a baby can be realized soon.

How do you maintain your enthusiasm and motivation? Are there any special principles or values that help you stay focused on your journey?

The best way to maintain enthusiasm and motivation is to always be positive, confident and full of confidence. People who are pessimistic will lose their enthusiasm and motivation. So I think it's very important that we always think positively in facing everything.

Many things that I have passed in this world that I have felt when thinking negatively we will always fail to achieve the goals we want, not even just fail but we even fall and get worse.

So positive thinking is one of the keys to achieving success, with positive thinking we will be motivated to get stronger and increase enthusiasm to face the challenges of life in the future.

So is what I hope for with my partner in achieving our desire to have children, we believe and think positively that one day our wishes will definitely come true, but we just don't know when.

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