Free writing:Tips for engaged and Married (episode 1)

Hi friends!,
Here comes a beautiful moment to reach out to our young steemians who are yet to marry,or already wedded.
I feel like making a post that will be of benefit to all,segmented into episodes till I exhaust my inspiration on the topic.
In tips for engaged and Married (episode 1),the focus will be on :
~Who matches two partners?
~How are you sure that he/she is the one?
~Is pre-marital counselling necessary before marriage?
~What age is Ideal for marriage?

Who Matches Two Partners ?

I hear some wedded couple say,my partner is 'chosen' for me by God.while others say,if not this or that,him or her I would not have married my partner.
Sometimes these statements come in form of testimonies or regrets in marriage.
But the truth is that, God does not choose a partner for anyone.
He(God) only allows you to make a choice,He ordains it if you wish.

How Are You Sure That He/She Is The One?

The only reliable way to be sure of your partner is by _action_and shared values.
Action they say,speaks louder than voice.
And that action is love.
For Where there is true love,there is happiness,joy,peace,patience,kindness,faithfulness,humility and self-control with other shared values.

Is Pre-marital Counselling Necessary Before Marriage?

It is important to seek advice from the married,be informed of their ups and downs in marriage so as to know how to embark on your journey. Some families are suffering in abject poverty,incessant argument and pains due to wrong choices they made in life. From counselling,Partners will understand what make a happy home. They stand to gain knowledge of Family background,Health status,blood type,Academic qualifications,skills or career of their partners and so on.

What Age Is Ideal For Marriage?

There is no Ideal age for marriage.But any age below 21years might have slim chances of succeeding in marriage.
Because,young people less than that age tend to lack economical and emotional stamina to absorb the shock of making decisive stand in marriage and managing family burden.
Therefore,such Partners might wait a while,gather emotional and financial supports before entering into marriage.

Conclusion:
Tips for engaged and Married might be focusing mainly on the young people who intend going into marriage,but I would also want the married to see it as a useful article in counselling their young ones who will definitely marry one day.
Have a beautiful day!

@pretty-precious