Relationship matters 🤔 Getting married to an elderly patner(woman)

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Hey guys it's another day 🤔, let us quickly check ourselves🧐, between your lovely parents, who do you think is the oldest. Well to most Nigerians, it is usually our fathers not mothers🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔🤔.

I was thinking do you think it's normal for the father to be the elder or mother, but which ever way you like it share your great
opinion downstairs🧐 on the comment section 😂..let's check who wins⛹️⛹️.

would you love to marry someone older than you as a guy?

Or as a lady would you love to marry someone younger than your age?

😤😤Dear Campus connect members and steemians this question Goes to us all but I am giving my own opinion, you can drop yours at the comment box let's vibe🤔😊

The question Goes like this 👇.

Is it Advisable to marry a woman who is more mature in age and other things that you as a man😊??

No! if you are just guessing and you are not compatible.

Age difference should not be more than 3 years unless you know beyond any shadow of doubt God is leading you.

Biologically, women tend to age faster than men unless she comes from a lineage where they look far younger than their age.
If the age gap is around 5 years and above, she may want to see herself like your big aunt and indirectly or directly demand submission from you.

If she combines all the above with financial power. It is well with your soul in Jesus' name!

Her birth position may also affect how she relates to you.

If she is a first born used to issuing orders to her siblings she may be tempted to same.

Temperamentally, cholerics are leaders and can be bossy, sassy and rude.

If she has the choleric temperament, she may be dishing hot instructions to you and expect you to carry them out to the letter

Ok let's see to the answer to that question 🤔🤔

I won't advise you marry a woman older than you by 3 years above , but if she is humble, respects, admires, honours you and is ready to submit to your authority as the head in marriage, or God gave you instructions my brother, you have won a jackpot

Marry her and don't look back
But if she is proud, rude and on top seniors you with her bank balance?

Bros. Brother. Huncle. How many times did I call you?

If you have the gift of patience and long suffering, God has answered your prayers.

She is the trial of your faith you have long been waiting for.

I leave the rest to you!

There are ladies who are younger than their partners who are rude and sassy too.

Sometimes, bad attitude is not about age.

What matters most is marrying God's will.

In God's will, everything you need to have a super rosy marriage is packaged in it.

May you not mis-choose
Thanks to @campusconnectng and @whitestallion for supporting steemians here @campusconnectng it's an honor to be a steemian 😊😊..

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I couldn't stop laughing while reading this lines

She is the trial of your faith you have long been waiting for

Well for me age shouldn't be a determinant what matter most is marrying a capable woman, God's fearing - very important. Thanks for sharing your thoughts with us

😀😀 amazing si would you love to marry someone younger than you

I'm currently in love with someone who's younger than I am. I don't feel a need to tower over him and I think that if the duo have come together and know why they're in that relationship, it can work.

Cool mam. .once u love and respect the guy you're good to go

Omo, to be factual I prefer older women though. It's not a bad decision marrying someone who's older.

Like ten years older 😂 or lesser