Better Life || THINGS A MUM TEACHES HER DAUGHTER

in hive-120962 •  3 years ago  (edited)

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Here below are some major facts a mother would always observe to impart her daughter before she ties the nuptial ring in her fingers, and before moving to her husbands house...it would also help her start her home for maximum productivity and success in marriage


However, driving this home to us, as campus students and the future of our today society. A lady should embibe certain virtues and values to obtain a decent home free from tyrants and anarchy.


THINGS A MOTHER TEACHES HER DAUGHTER BEFORE MARRIAGE

  • A daughter dont cause a separation between your man and his siblings, it could be dangerous for you when the familydoes not speaks with one voice

  • A daughter must not marry a man based on his financial status, you choose to grow with him, build your home up to the top...Climb your way up to the top.

  • A daughter should not get pregnant before the wedding day, never open your legs before the wedding..the truth is actually bitter...a bitter pill to take down.

  • A daughter when you aboit getting married dont let material things be the drive in the relationship. Dont let material things be the drive and anchor, triggering affections...let love lead.

  • A daughter should support a husband fully, no matter if food is little. Times are not always the same, support him in every phase he is passing through.

  • A daughter should never close her legs to her husband in bed, the day he paid your dowry, was the day you lost your will to do so. Dont be still and try to satisfy him even when you are angry

  • A man would always respect you and be more proud of you if you are learned in a skill ans not totally dependent on him. Strive to make yoir own money, while you are at it, remember to be submissive.

  • A daughter should never be a feminist , which is the order of the day. You can prove to be equal to a man in the society but not in your marriage because you have to protect your home.

  • A daughter should not make marriage a rehabilitation center, if he is not good enough for you before marriage, nothing he does would be good enough after marriage.

  • A daughted should always look good and sexy. So take good care of your body look good for your man and not looking like a grandma, after giving birth.

  • A daughter should remain in her husbands house always no matter the situation remain true till death do your part.

  • A daughter should have unity with her husband and her kids, join the activity of grooming your kids in unity with ur husband. Join him to say NO or YES , if not the childrem would see a reason to misbehave either to you or their father.

  • A daughter should always look for the best to her. If he is tall, slim, fair , and handsome but yet a wife beater? Just walk away choosing the dark, ugly, short ones that would give you the respect you. You deserve as a woman.

  • A daughter should know, respect the culture and lifestyle of whoever you choose to marry, in some part of Nigeria. You kneel down and other tribe you prostrate...you have to respect your husband and in-laws.

  • A daughter must never date a married man. Whether his excuse was that he connects with you or he hates his wife. Just abstain!

  • A daughter must always be patient in marriage never give up or leave your marriage...stay through in the marriage. For better for worse.

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Hello @daprado1999 Thank you for sharing , keep posting quality contents on #campusconnect and Most importantly support and join #club5050 program .

This is a good advice. Keep steeming.