When your loved ones die,
- do they go to heaven?
- do they go to hell?
- do they go to purgatory?
- do they stay here watching their children and loved ones?
YES.
All of those things are true, but they are not where most people think, nor are they what most people believe.
Does Hell exist?
Unfortunately they rewrote the bible to describe hell as a place of punishment. Just a little change to the word, and you get that it is a fiery place where you are (tortured) and you spend all (eternity) there.
And so, with the new definition, many people just started disbelieving in the whole word. Because, surely it would not be that. No loving God would make that…
Hell is a place where you go to burn the sins out of your soul.
It is part of the reincarnation cycle.
It is part of taking what you learned and condensing it down to become part of you for future lives.
So, everyone goes to hell for as long as they need.
The more sins (hurts to your soul) you did, the longer it will take.
And so, those without sin do not go to hell… sorta.
You need to prepare yourself for your next lifetime, so hell isn't really part of the spiritual world, it is in between. Hell is part of earth, part of the reincarnation on earth cycle. If this was a video game, this is the part where Mario ends up in the lava/warp zone before getting reset to the starting point. It is not outside the video game, and only happens to your video game avatar. (but you, are the video game avatar)
What about heaven?
Again, the word was changed. The confusing part is they changed "no time passes" to "for all eternity". When heaven is just not in our time. Earth time doesn't really pass when you are in heaven. (and time, from that side, isn't really linear)
Heaven would be best described as a rest stop in between lives. Where you recuperate from the trauma of incarnating.
There are various levels of heaven. People are self sorting, it is not a punishment, it is just about how you can "praise" (interact) with God.
The 3rd level looks very much like the Bible destription, where everyone gets up, walks to the central place and sings praises to God. This level is for people who's focus, or extent of being, is that they can praise God through song.
(God doesn't need to be "praised", it is more of a… this is one way to interact. And sound, there, is a lot more tangible. God used words to create the universe, the heavens and the earth.)
So, heaven is a rest stop in between your lives.
What is purgatory?
These layers are hard to describe, because they aren't really layers, and your experience will vary depending on how much experience and power you have.
They are just layers in between the solid, you are a physical body, to the aetheric, you are an energy being, in this earth cycle system.
You can get stuck in several of these layers where/when you hold onto life regrets. The trauma, even the trauma of separation, even grudges against the world, or against God can keep you stuck here.
There are beings that help guide people across these layers. But, as with all free will, you can ignore them, and their help.
So, this is where you hear of angry ghosts, and upset poltergeists. People stuck in some of the first layers away from physical earth. But, there are many layers, and many beings stuck. We should NEVER allow a person to die while they have serious grudges against the world. But we can't even solve our serious single mother epidemic.
Do you stay here watching over your children?
This is a hard one to explain, because people think of themselves as being in one place at one time, and only at one place and one time.
Truly, a part of you never leaves your children. You care about them and always want to be near them and know how they are doing and watch them develop. So, there is a part of you (you could think of it as an angel looking down from heaven) who stays with your children and any important friends.
This part of you is not the part that is going through purgatory/hell/heaven and being reincarnated. But, it is part of your larger self. The part that sits with you in between life times planning your life. Planning who you will be born to, and who are the major players you will meet in your life.
You are heavily invested in this earth, and all the pieces of it. You are watching it, in every piece, as it evolves and becomes something we could not even think of when we started.