How to Kiss a Man - Top Kissing Tips for Women!

So you want to know how to be a good kisser? Kissing is something that many of us do regularly. But everyone can probably benefit from a few good kissing tips to improve our technique.
Kissing isn’t always something that comes naturally – it’s an art that needs to be learned, practiced and improved upon.
If you’d like to improve your kissing skills, here are a number of good kissing tips to try, even if it’s the first time you are kissing someone.

Kissing Preparation
Some kisses will be spontaneous and catch you off guard, and some are simply “greeting” kisses and are not meant to be passionate.
But when you’re planning for a make-out session that could lead to something more, the first of many kissing tips you need to follow is making sure you are adequately prepared.
So how do you prep yourself for some good kissing action? For starters, you’ll want to smell good — all over your body.

The sense of smell is a sensual part of the whole art of kissing and you want to make sure your overall scent takes his breath away and makes him want to kiss you more.
A light lotion on your skin is a good idea, which will produce a pleasant scent and also make your skin soft and smooth.
Make sure you also put on some deodorant and a hint (not too much) of a complementary body spray or perfume.
Lingering scents that aren’t too strong are made by taking a bath with soft, natural oil. Lavender and rose oil extract are popular and romantic.
Don’t forget about your breath.
Your breath is an important factor when kissing — good or bad — and far too often women forgo this seemingly obvious yet important kissing technique. Bad breath isn’t just an issue for men.
Brushing your teeth every morning and night is great, but make sure you give them an extra scrub (with minty toothpaste) before your kissing session.

Remember to brush your tongue, too, because it can harbor unpleasant germs and bacteria.
If you struggle with bad breath, you may want to use a bacteria-fighting mouthwash, suck on some mints, or chew some fresh gum — but remember to spit it out before you start kissing! If the problem persists, consult your doctor or dentist.

Another important consideration when boosting your kissing skills is the condition of your lips and makeup.
Your lips should be soft, supple and, well, kissable — not slimy or rough. You may want to “exfoliate” some of the dead skin cells off your lips.
After applying some lip balm or even just water, gently rub your lips with an old toothbrush.
Also, think about your makeup. A touch of tasteful, natural-looking makeup is fine, but don’t overdo it. Many men don’t like a lot of make-up while kissing, especially because lipstick can smear all over their face and clothes. A little bit of lip balm should do the trick.
A kiss is intimate and conveys passion and desire.
It is a form of body communication that expresses more than words ever could. Your kiss is also very personal, it will change depending on whom you are kissing and why.
A nervous, first-time kiss with a certain someone is going to be different, mechanically speaking, from the kiss between a couple that has been together a long time.
Yet both convey desire and a need between two people.
An honest kiss delivers more than the touch of lips. It opens the heart and soul.

You don’t want to be too forward, but keep in mind that some guys like it when a woman makes the first move, especially if they have been together for a while. For the first few kisses, go nice and slow, and kiss gently.
French Kissing Tips
If you want to know how to be a good kisser that creates that “butterfly in the stomach” feeling, begin with a light brush of the hand on the face or nape of the neck. Hold there, for just a moment -- long enough for him to want more but not so long that he starts thinking about something else.
The next step is to move toward him, face to face. Let him know with eye contact that you want his kiss and that he really wants yours.
Brush your lips on his gently at first, and then slowly open your mouth. The art of kissing is heightened when you close your eyes when your mouth opens to his.
Now we move on to French kissing tips for technique.
First, keep your lips soft and slightly opened, in a gently inviting and receptive way. Don’t press them together tightly, but also avoid opening them too wide. Drooling and too much saliva is almost always a turn-off for men and women.

On the other hand, some women and men like steamy, sloppy, wet kissing. A kiss basically boils down to what the couple finds passionate.
A hot, wet kiss usually starts off strong and invasive. It floods the mouth with a tongue and opens the mouth wide. A wet kiss can sometimes include licking of the lips and around the lips and even the face.
Though it’s not something for everyone, but certainly something that some will enjoy, the wet kiss doesn’t think about properness or drool: A wet kiss is generally so intense that neither person notices, or cares.
Keep in mind that not everybody is a fan of the French kiss, women and men included. So don’t feel like you have to French kiss to enjoy a healthy and sexy kissing session. Slowly introduce your tongue into his mouth while kissing.
You may want to first use your tongue to gently tickle his lips and/or the edge of his teeth (some men find this very sexy) before connecting your tongue with his.
When your tongues do touch, pause to see how he reacts. If it’s positive, continue kissing and gently stroke the back of his neck.
French kissing tips include the two basic types of kisses used in the art of kissing: deep tongue and light tongue. Deep tongue invades the mouth and throat; it is an act of sexual appeal and uncompromised strength.
Light tongue is a brush of the tips of the tongue on the lips and inside the mouth. This conveys sex appeal and a type of wanting innocence.

Both types of kissing are fine; there is no right or wrong way to kiss.
Keep in mind, however, that each person prefers a different type of kiss, so if you feel uncomfortable or sense that he is, it’s perfectly fine to stop for a moment and take a breather.
You can always use a cute, flirtatious comment to let him know what type of kiss you want, and remember to ask him what type of kiss he likes.
You can also feel out a kissing style by going with his natural flow for a while and then switching to yours if they are different.
Once you have been kissing for a while and you’re in a nice “kissing groove,” the key is to go with the flow and just do what feels right. A good kisser never does things that are awkward or forced.
You could begin to gently explore his mouth, start kissing other body parts, wrap your arms around him, and slowly move your hands around his body. Try to sense his reception.

Kissing Communication
Probably one of the best tips for kissing out there is communication. Everyone kisses differently, and everyone likes different things. So don’t forget to communicate with your man regarding all things kissing-related.
This may be somewhat awkward, especially in the beginning of your relationship. But just like sex, if you don’t talk about it, you’ll never know what he likes, what he doesn’t like, what you are doing right, what you are doing wrong, and how you can improve your kissing technique.
And don’t be afraid to tell him what you like and dislike about the art of kissing.
No one is the perfect kisser, and he should be receptive to your feedback and suggestions. If he’s not, then maybe it is time to move on and find someone else to kiss!
Remember that while these are certainly helpful and useful kissing tips, they are not kissing rules—just guidelines.
There really is no such thing as one perfect kiss that every couple must conquer.
Each woman, man, and couple will define their perfect kiss differently and that can change and also come in many forms.
Never feel like you have to do something you don’t want to, whether it makes you uncomfortable or you just don’t enjoy it.
Most importantly, have fun! While there is some effort involved in perfecting your kissing skills, it should mostly be an enjoyable activity for both of you.

Are You A Good Kisser?
Smooching, snogging, lip locking - whatever language of love you prefer, there are universal moves that make for a memorable kiss. You can tell a lot about a person by the way they kiss - so what are your lips saying about you? Find out what kind of kisser you are with this quiz.