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Today I will be writing about this wondering contest organised by @ridwant I found it interesting so I decided to participate.
Before proceeding I will love to define the word marriage.
In my own understanding marriage is simply the coming together of man and woman as husband and wife. Unfortunately they are many broken marriage out there some due to bad communication while other due to wrong decisions that they will end up regretting.
What cause men or women to be reluctant to marry
Due to my research I have found out that many men are reluctant to get married because of the way they have been treated by women in the past I was a living witness of a man in my area who trained a lady through out her stay in school and they agreed that once she graduates from school they will both get married.
This man spent humge amount of money and went through a lot to make she graduates from school but unfortunately when she graduated from school she told him that she is no longer interested in marrying him, he was heart broken and they is nothing he could do because he can't force her to marry him and that was how everything ended that's what we call all for nothing.
I feel for the man because during that period he was always thinking infact he nearly committed suicide but he was saved.
Men also sometimes refuse to get married because some of them have kids and they can't stay with a particular woman so it's best they remain single and enjoy themselves.
For the women it's also thesame because I'm the last they have been dealt by men so they believe it best for them to be single mothers.
Some of them that are wealthy believe that they have enough money to take care of them selves so being with a man as their husband is a waste of time, that is the reason some men are afraid to go close to them.
What is the importance of marriage for couple (men & women)
For me I am an African woman infact a proud Nigerian 🇳🇬 and I am from the eastern part of the country which is the Igbo in my culture the most important thing in marriage for couple is to have children to keep them happy and company any couple that doesn't have a child the marriage is not guarantee for them because the man might decide to take a second wife to give him children.
Happiness is also another important aspect in marriage for couple because if you are both happy to get as couple you will be able to achieve anything you both desires because you all understand each other very well and the marriage will be peaceful and enjoyable for both of you.
Unlike some who endure marriage your case will be different because you both are going to enjoy your marital life and you will both live in peace and harmony.
What are the risks for men and women if they doesn't get married
The number one risk for both men and women if they refuse to get married is that they will not have children of their own and for that reason the name of their family will be gradually going down because they will be no one to carry the name of their family anymore.
Happiness is all that matters in this life once you find a good and understandable man or woman as your partner you will be very happy but if you refuse to marry you will be unhappy when you get old.
Once you get old they will be no one to take care of you because you refuse to get married and have children and for that reason you will be very devastated and you will regret not getting married.
We are humans and we once get sick, not getting married and having children is very bad because we are risking our lives once we get sick they will be no one to take us to the hospital and we might end up dying.
They was a bachelor in my area that refused to get married and he felt seriously sick and no body knew about it, so a friend of his decided to go and visit him at his house but when he arrived he saw him at the floor crying for help that he is dying and his friend quickly raised alarm and people came and rushed him to the hospital for treatment thanks be to God 🙏 he survived it and he quickly went to his village a marriage a wife that will take good care of him, you can see how important marriage is.
Marriage is very important in theife of everyone most especially if you find a very good and understandable partner you will definitely enjoy marriage, so I will advise everyone out there who isn't married to go and get married immediately because it's going to help you on different ways.
My parents are happily married and blessed with four kids and I thank God for everything he had done in the life of my family.
I am inviting @adunni, @zainabdosunmu1 and @shiftitamanna to participate in this contest.
For verification purpose here is my introductory post click here