"Difficult to Get Married! Why?"

Hello, my good Steemit friends! I am happy to have you here reading through my post, in which I talked about the "Difficult to Get Married! Why?" which is organized by @ridwant.

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What causes men or women to be reluctant to marry?

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There are so many things that cause men or women to be reluctant to marry, some of which are discussed below.

• lack of finance:
  Financial, which we all know as money, is the number one thing that causes men or women to be reluctant to marry. 90% of women want to get married to an already-made man who has achieved financial freedom or someone who has a good source of income. Even besides the financial aspect that women do look out for, men these days want to make money before thinking of getting married.

• Character/behavior:
  Most men want to get married to a decent girl, which is hard to see in this generation. Sometimes even those who are engaged do get to cancel their engagement after discovering the bad side of the person.

• Family Background:
  Some men and women come from a community that has traditional laws, and in this modern generation, people do not focus more on traditional stuff. Family lineage is also another reason why both men and women are reluctant to marry.

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What is the importance of marriage for couples (men and women)?

The importance of marriage for couples (men and women) is the children they give birth to. Children that make that will keep the lineage of the couples from generation to generation.

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Also, love and understanding are important things for married couples. When there is love, there will be peace and understanding in the marriage, which is what everyone is praying for.

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What are the risks for men and women if they don't get married?

One of the risks is that for men and women who don't get married if they die today, they will be forgotten so soon because there will be no child to answer their name.

Also, when they die, someone who is not in any way related to the unmarried person will be the one to carry the person's property, which he or she also has to labor for.

Finally, due to this, they will suffer in old age. During old age, when they would have been eating the fruit of their labor, they would suffer since there were no children to look after them.

@yakspeace, @chant, and @dave-hanny, you are all invited to take part in the contest.