"Difficult to Get Married! Why?"

Hello steemians,
It's a pleasure to be part of those participating in this contest today which we title "Difficult to Get Married! Why?" it is a wonderful contest and many will love to share their participation.

I want to join those who will be sharing their opinions about this very topic today. I'm sure you will enjoy reading through my post so let's go into the tips and then try to answer the questions that follow.

What causes men or women to be reluctant to marry?

Marriage is not something anyone will just rush into at any time and that is the reason men or women feel reluctant to get into it.

When it comes to marriage, you are denying yourself of every other thing and you will be with someone for the rest of your life. No one is perfect but accepting the imperfection of others are not always easy.

So because of the many lapses, we see in marriages, people find it difficult to go into marriage for any reason. In marriages, oaths are taken for you to continue loving and caring for your pattern in sickness and in health, in rich and in poor, and till death do you path.

This is a difficult task that people don't find very easy to start and that is the reason they feel reluctant to get themselves committed in marriage.

What is the importance of marriage for couples (men and women)?

Marriage is very important for men and women but it is never a necessity. I said this because even if you are not married, you can still achieve your goal in life.

The major essence of marriage is that you will have a shoulder to lean on whenever the going gets tougher. Also to have someone to share in your joy and sadness since you will not live with your parents forever.

Another major aim or importance of marriage is reproduction. Every child needs his parent i.e. the mother and the father in the form to grow well in society. So when a man marries a woman, it is expected that they train their child well.

What are the risks for men and women if they don't get married?

The only danger I see in a man or a woman if they don't get married is that they won't have a child of their own or have a family which they will use to train their child or children.

A man or a woman may go out and get a child because they prefer to be single parents and that is allowed because many people don't feel comfortable with the dramas happening in marriage.

So in summary, the only thing I see is that they don't get to raise their children as a parent or the may never have a child of their own.

I want to invite @yakspeace, @bonaventure24, and @m-fdo to join the contest in this community and share their entry participation.