Life-Changing Advice That Shaped My Perspective || 10% Beneficiary set to @steem-nations

in hive-136769 •  20 days ago 

Hello, how are you all? I hope you are all well. The best advice I ever received—so far the best pieces of advice I have been given—I would like to share. The first one was that whenever you are about to achieve something in your life or are about to do some important task, never tell anyone about it before it happens. Like many others, I also used to make this mistake that before the task was completed or even while it was in progress, I would tell everyone. That task would never get completed. But now I have learned from my mistake, and I don’t tell anyone about anything before it happens. Sometimes, even after the task is done, I don’t tell anyone. But there are certain things that you have to share, but even then, please don’t tell anyone before it happens because you never know what’s in someone’s heart. Who is genuinely happy for you and praying for you, and who is just pretending to be happy but is actually casting the evil eye.

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The second and very best advice is to stay in touch with everyone but never spread anyone’s words here and there, nor share everything about yourself with everyone. And remember that not everyone is your friend. If you know what’s going on in someone’s life, it doesn’t mean you need to tell everyone else about it because the world is round. The conversation will eventually circle back to you, and you won’t even realize it.

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And the other thing I said, not everyone is your friend. It’s not necessary to consider everyone your friend. The fewer friends you keep, the more peaceful you will be. If someone is a classmate, it doesn’t mean they are also a friend. You can just call them a classmate. I think I got this advice when I was very young, which is why I have very few friends. But I talk to many people. I greet them, exchange pleasantries—hello, hi—with everyone, but they are not all my friends. There are very few whom I call my friends, and that’s exactly how it should be.

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Peace & Love!

Thank you!

Great. Keeping things private and choosing friends wisely can bring much peace and clarity.

yes exactly!