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I love the STEEMIT PAKISTAN community, And hopefully I will always be able to interact in this good community. And hope for support from the curation @steemit-pak
I want to try to write my thoughts here, so according to my theme and title about FAMILY PROBLEMS, the source of parents/in-laws
Hopefully what I have written will be an insight for us in navigating family life.
Having a family is a very good choice for every couple who is ready and able to navigate the household ark, but there are many things that we need to pay attention to in marriage, because there are also many problems faced by every family due to interference from parents or in-laws in the family. his son's household.
Actually, since the couple got married, it has become a man's full responsibility for his wife and child under any conditions, so the couple will think in many ways in seeking the welfare of a family, this will allow them to find loopholes so that their lives will be better even though they are dealing with every problem that is whacking him.
PARENTS/IN-LAW MIXED
Usually a family will be easily destroyed when parents or in-laws like to interfere in their children's household affairs, indirectly this will cause them problems, therefore wise parents will never interfere in their children's affairs even though they are very small. , it will give good advice in every problem they face.
Every child's family problem, parents will definitely justify their child, even though they don't know the problem fundamentally, and without realizing it, the partner will easily hold his ego in every problem, the effect of the support from his parents, thus making the problem bigger and more complicated.
It is things like this that we really need to deal with, because the role of parents in their children's families will actually make the atmosphere even more heated, don't think that the role of parents will be fine, especially our partners who do not have basic knowledge in having a family will certainly be very easy provoked by the presence of parents.
Thus, as parents, never interfere in the affairs of the children's family even in the slightest, because this is their provision in terms of building and fighting for their families to be better, do not add to their problems.
Thus for this description, and hopefully this becomes a material consideration for parents who have children who are already married.
REGARDS
@jojon12
You have presented the post in a very nice way.The family has discussed the problem in a very nice way.Thank you so much for sharing your post with us.
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Thank you sir, I'm glad to have read your comments
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You've discussed on a very serious issue but according to me parents not solve your problems most of the times even prevent your marriage from breaking.
I will agree on a point sometimes in laws or parents will affect your relationship but most of the time they are trying to solve your problems. I want to add that relationship disturbance between husband and wife will effect their childs the most. I have seen such cases where child become aggressive due to such environment at their home. Thanks for sharing this.
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thank you
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