Steemit Engagement Challenge Week #3//Defend the statements//@kingworldline

Greetings to all the steemains, am happy and glad to be in this platform and priveldge to be in this platform. Thanks for the support and the mindset to think critically. Am defending the statements: Woman's Place is in the kitchen, Votes not Guaranteed and Money is more important than love.

A woman's Place is in the kitchen

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Who is a woman? A woman is one that does not run her mouth with sarcasm and annoying words her words are guided and can heal a broken soul.
She does not look down at her husband because if his present situation of life or financial status,instead she encourages her husband to be a better person.

A woman's place is in the kitchen means that not only a wife to her husband,a mother to her children nor a sister to her in-laws but understanding that the kitchen is one of the important places that she can not deal without.

A woman's place is in the kitchen that is her (mother) responsibility and duty to ensure that her husband and children is well taken care off in terms of satisfaction of bellies but due to gender inequalities and lack of understanding of the word woman, they see it as a stress and disturbance or they are being forced or compelled to cook.

There is a saying that goes this way A hungry man is an angry man and an angry man is a devil's workshop looking at it at a scenario where the woman is at home and there is no food it can lead to the man being harsh on the woman. With the understanding that her place is in the kitchen she can be able to connect well with the husband, children and relations. This remind me of my father why he can not eat any meal or food that is not cooked or prepared by my mother even to a point when we went for a wedding he refused to eat when I ask him, he said I can't miss eating the soup prepared by your mother.

In the olden days, husbands were meant to do heavy and stressful jobs or works which include farming while the women were meant to wash clothes, take care of the children and cook for the family and it became a tradition that men are meant to do heavy jobs and women are meant to do house chores.

Many may say women's place is not only in the kitchen they may be right but am saying that kitchen is one of the places that women can't do without, it satisfies empty stomachs and also makes the women live long.
I defend the statement that every woman's place is in the kitchen, many homes have enjoyed happiness because of the understanding the mothers had towards this statement.

Votes are not Guaranteed

In steemit we have Steemit Curation Team( Steem Curator 01, Steem Curator 02, Steem Curator 03). When any Steemain follows a rule guiding any contest or homework post or assignment , the organizers of such contest then assures Steem Curator 01 or Steem Curator 02 or Steem Curator 03 to upvote ( vote).

When a Steemain publish a post and the post is original(not plagiarised) ,properly cited, properly presented, image are properly sourced, avoid the use of bit bot that qualifies the Steemit user for a vote from Steem Curator 01 or 02 or 03.

Vote are not guaranteed means that not all the posts that will be voted but meanwhile the Steemain have to make a reasonable post , provided the Steemain makes a reasonable post it wil make the Steemain eligible to get votes based on the post and rate too, when the post is not eligible(not reasonable) it will not attract votes and rate too. Also if the Steemain do not upvote or comment or resteem on other Steemain's post.

When a post is properly presented, properly cited and images are properly sourced and it was not voted,it will be as a result of not belonging to a club like Club5050, Club75 and Club 100. In Club 5050 if the user did not power up half of it's earning either steem or SBD to help boost more values to the platform it will not attract and the club organizers will not assures Curator 01 or 03/or 03 to vote, likewise Club75 if the Steemain power up three quarter of its earnings or the Steemit user invest 75% of its earnings and club100. The check period of club5050 is 30days,club 75 the check period is 60days and club 100 the check period is 90 days.

I encourage all Steemains to perfectly make sure that their post are well presented, proper citation, images are properly sourced to attract votes.

Money is more Important than love

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An adage says that without money love suffers what it's shouldn't. Love should not suffer there is money and without it love fluctuates. Money is important than love because it is the root that maintains love. Where there is money there is love to maintain love. Am not saying that money should be the primary focus or makes you happy but it is the engine that drives love; the heartbeat.

Money makes life easier without money life will be difficult, it solves some problems not all. The problems that money solves are shelter, food ,education, travel,entertainment. In the family when one partner have money and the one don't have, it becomes a problem thereby affecting the partner that has and making life uneasy and uncomfortable for both partners but when the both partners have money life becomes easier and projects can be achieved,because two are involved and it keeps the bond they share stronger.

Money they say sustain love but does not create it. Looking it at this scenario when a fellow does not have money how do you think the fellow can command true love. When there is no money one dies of hunger if not solve it can lead to anger and remain they said a hungry man is an anger man. When someone is angry there is love and is bound to be depressed and hurt. Love comes as a result of the availability of money.

Money is more important than love in the aspect of personality. Yes I can love myself because of the way I am but you need money to prove to yourself that you love yourself, you need money to prove to yourself that you the best, you need money to prove to yourself that you can achieve your purpose of you being born on earth. I don't need any sayer to tell me that money is more important than love.

Conclusion

Without money in the family ,husbands can not prove how really the love the wives and children. With the understanding that women place is in the kitchen, the issue of broken homes will be avoided.