Steemit Engagement Challenge Week # 3 | Defend The Statements (Be critical thinkers) | by @shohana1

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Greetings wonderful friends of steemit,

Another week to take part in such awesome contest which also the part of steemit engagement challenge and its week 3. Before the deadline end I would love to take part in it and also invited my closest and nearest steemian friends out there. So here I come to defend such interesting topics given by contest holder and I wish to defend it according to my point of views and honest statements. Let me start with the first statement which really need to defend and as a woman I have honest opinion to defend it. Most of the people whoever respect women will surely appreciate my each and every points for first statement discussion.
So here I'm going to defend these three statements:

• A woman's place is in the kitchen.
• Votes Are Not Guaranteed- SC01
• You will stay happier if you are unmarried.

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A woman's place is in the kitchen:

Not really! Cooking is an art and this art has no boundary. Even men can take a place inside the kitchen as a chef. But in patriarchal society its a kind of belief that women born only to hold the responsibly of kitchen and they are unable to do some other tasks or work men do. This kind of misconception already changed in many society where there is the light of education where men and women has given equal rights. A women can choose the kitchen for her willingly not forcefully. Working women now found in every sector of service and business. Women just need opportunities to prove themselves and a supporting society or men can bring or make the opportunity for women.

Kitchen is a place where many women spend almost their whole life sake of family responsibilities and they never get the chance to explore their other talent or creativity though now kitchen also can be use to show talent and creativities of cooking but in the past or in the history many women spend their whole life inside the kitchen for cooking food for her family, those days are gone so far. Now everywhere woman can participate to show their creativities and beside the kitchen she can make her own working space where she can build her own identity. So women's place is not only inside the kitchen but also almost everywhere she can make her place with honor and dignity. Legend from history are the witness of empowerment of women. Women just need a single chance to prove their guts and today's women is powerful enough to break all the negativities around them. Hats off today's women. Let them explore instead make them realize that their lifeline end outside the kitchen.

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Votes Are Not Guaranteed- SC01:

We all know that behind the steemit team there are some individuals are also human being, they are not robot and providing auto votes. They are very keen about choosing the quality blogs that really deserves upvote or support. But as human being we also have no boundary of complaining and I saw personally many individuals (honestly including myself) they start complaining that they wrote quality blogs but sc01-sc09 didn't pay attention. But you know what many of them got maximum upvotes in the past, suddenly if curators giving attention to another rising star blogger we burst out with jealousy and this is very common human nature even honestly I go through this jealousy haha!

Later I realize my fault when I imagine myself as sc01 and other curators. See we can't make happy everyone around us right and its not our responsibilities too. A daily quality content creator more or less get enough support from curators and they are not robot and they vote manually, get their notification area flooded with mentions and this way I step back myself as once I disturbed them a lot by random mentioning but when I realize their responsibilities as curator I also suggest new comers not to mention sc01 and sc02 because they are keen to chose the quality blog if we continue blogging with full of quality they surely support with big amount of percentage of upvote. I salute their hardwork and support and now if I miss support I feel fine because in the past their constant support made me able to accumulate 12k+ steem power and my heartiest gratitude to steemit team. So we should focus on quality instead begging for upvotes and mention them in our random posts. Newbies kindly stop doing it because when you are deserving you will get support after keep continuing your regular quality blogging and votes are not guaranteed but to get it, you should work for it. So good luck all of you including myself hehe!

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You will stay happier if you are unmarried:

First of all I want to say that our happiness is a matter of choice. Get married or being single can't decide our happiness. We need to choose the path that makes us happy. Many people believes marriage snatched away their freedom but its not always true because many happily married couple can be found around us even there are many research claim that married people are happier than single but I don't agree more as I said happiness is a matter of choice and we can be happy when we can let things go, forgive and forget things that makes us unhappy all the time. Each and every relationship need to have more or less sacrifice, compromise so what's wrong when its come to marriage? For our partner's happiness we also can compromise and sacrifice and bring our inner peace and happiness at the same time.

You can be happier in any situation if you want to be, marriage is not a barrier to our happiness even marriage can be reason of our happiness too where two people feel secure and committed to live together forever. Marriage can be successful or unsuccessful but can't be something that can decide your happiness or sorrows.

Being single is not always means that you are happy. Let me talk about a single man for example. A man who loves his freedom all his life, he never wanted to get into family so he didn't get married but had physical relation with several women, several times in his life. One day when he realized that he is getting old and he has no one to take care of him, he realized the importance of a family and at the last stage of his life he badly miss having his own child and family but it was too late. So person to person it depends that what kind of lifestyle can make them happy and sometimes living for others is also call life and that can bring happiness too. So we can't blame marriage for our unhappiness and being single also not always a blessing too may bring temporary happiness when we are young.

Thanks For Reading Till The End

Would like to invite my friends to take part in it @ripon0630 @ternuritajessi @zulhendra @taillah @ikmalhariamuna Here you can find the : Contest Announcement