**SEC17 WK:#5: caring for aged and dependent relatives in the family

in hive-139765 •  7 months ago  (edited)
Greetings to all friends

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Hi Everybody

Assalamualaikum, I hope you are all well and I am also well. First of i am thankfull to steemkids for organized such an amazing contest.

Muhammad Arif

Very dear to me and very close to my heart, Baba who lives in our house.Those named Muhammad Arif are not our relatives but he have been with us from a long time and are very close to our hearts, they are more than our families.

His story is as follows: This Baba used to work with my father in Karachi.My father used to live in Karachi for business, so he used to work for him there and there and lived with him.

70 year old Muhammad Arif

Muhammad Arif, who lives with us now, whom we call Baba, is 70 years old when he went to my father's place in Karachi, at that time he was 25 years old, he was go there for job . He used to join hands with my father in hus business at that time.

Muhammad Arif Family

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Before Baba came to us, my father used to live in Peshawar before joining the business and his mother, his father and his siblings were from Peshawar and he is from a very good family. He came to my father in connection with his job and left his home behind for his job, but after staying here for a long time, his family did not treat him well a After that, Baba's mother and father death.
After Baba's siblings got married, his siblings did not accept him in their family again.

Baba was also engaged before when he was living in Peshawar, his family had fixed their relationship in a very nice house, but due to some family issue, their relationship ended and after that when His brothers and sisters were already married, so his brothers did not want to keep him in his family, so he lived with my father in Karachi.

Then after some time my father had shifted his business to Sargodha and due to this Baba also had to shift there because his family was not ready to keep him completely which he used to cry a lot.
They were very sad because their own father had died and their mother had died, so their siblings did not treat them well at all, so my father thought that they were live in our house. When my father's business shifted here, he used to stay with us in our house.

55 year old

When he came here, he was 55 years old, so he used to live with us and used to help us in the house work. But slowly he was getting very old and he wanted to be with his family. go back, but whenever they went, their families treated them very badly and were not at all ready to keep him, so they sent them back, so after that we Baba never left his side and always kept him close to us but he was very sad and used to tell us his old stories about his fiancee, his father and mother, his siblings and so much more. cried because he missed his family so much but his family didn't treat him well and didn't keep him.

No matter what we are doing but the truth never changes what is family is always family but we have given them much love like a our father and have always kept them like our father that's why We call him our Baba and I love him very much. Not part of the family but he is more than family to us and will always be to us but I love him very much and we have treated him like a our father.

All this has been very difficult for them and they have faced a lot of hardships in their lives. They met and we have the opportunity to serve them.
We are very grateful to our Lord that He considered us worthy to serve Him and keep them with us as part of our family.

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Hi @alisha-doll

I really like this post of yours. this is a very sad story. I am very happy to see that there are very few people in the world who can help anyone and give someone a place and a support and a place to stay. Indeed, may Allah always bless your parents, who kept such an elderly person in their home, whom no one was willing to do, this is a great thing. I am very happy to see that you people. Allah Almighty considered it worthy that you people can get this rewarding work.

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@samavia-doll

Thanks for your precious comment😊

Wsalam and I must say your father is very handsome Mashallah ❤️ may Allah give him healthy life Ameeen very beautifully you represent this post and happy to see your bond with you lr father best wishes for you ✨🤗

@kunwal

I hope you are well and I would like to tell you that you read the whole post first because this is not my father and you will know well when you see my post. What do you think about it, so please read it once and then comment.

Oh sorry I was doing someone else post it's just a mistake 😃

Ok mam

They say that when Allah Almighty closes one door, He opens another. Baba was taken away from himself by his own people, but he got the love of your family. Pray for Baba and may Allah reward you, Ameen.

Ameeen🤲♥️

@alisha-doll
I got so emotional to read your post. The story you have shared is full of emotions and feelings. I have got a feeling that you love this Baba from heart and not only for this post. I am so delighted to hear this that you treated him well when his family refused to accept him. I got shocked when I hear that how can onse own siblings and family members treat someone like this. Your father is a great man who gives that Baba space in his house. I am so impressed by you kindness that you have shown to this old man. You gave a wonderful messenge from this post to treat elderly people with love and affection.
It's a wonderful post. I really liked it. Keep working like this on this platform, I am absolutely sure you will succeed on this platform. Best wishes my dear friend.
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@gondalsavera

@gondalsavera

Once we sent Baba to his family asking him to go and meet them because he is his family, so when my brother went with him to meet his family, he told us to sit there. When he came back, he never met us because his family thought that I had met him just for the sake of meeting him and besides, we were very sorry and then we never let him go because it is like our elders and ours. They are very close together and we all love them very much. Rang also loves them and cares for them and they are like our elders, they are like our elders and they also give us a lot of prayers.

Such a nice post . I really enjoyed while reading your how you describe this man's life . That's so sweet how your family and you accepted him immediately make him part of your family. ❤️

@alisha-doll

Assalam Alaikum, it is really nice to see your post and we are proud of the fact that we love Baba so much and we will always take care of him and we try our best to keep him safe. Give all the facilities etc. and let him live a good life with us and take good care of him. Do not depend on anyone and think that they take care of themselves but we still have to look after something together because they are elderly. Earlier they used to be taken care of by us but now we are very happy and proud of them. It happens that now we people are taking care of them because we have become so big in their hands and now we will take care of them further insha'Allah.

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Thank you for participating in the Steemit Engagement Challenge Season 17 in the Steem kids and parents Community.

It's clear that Muhammad Arif holds a special place in your heart and family. Despite facing hardships and rejection from his own family, Baba has found a loving and supportive home with you. Your family's kindness and acceptance have brought joy and comfort to Muhammad Arif life, and for that, you should be proud.

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Mashallah very happy to see your post in this community and I read your complete post. It was very interesting. I like it very much. Bless you and your grand beba is very interesting. I like it very much best wishes.💕❤️✨

Baba was fortunate enough to locate his haven under your house with love and care. Good luck with the contest.

Thanks @senehasa for your kind words and also Thanks for appreciating me 😊♥️

Greetings friend,
As I understand, BABA who was involved in your father's business. He was a very close person to you and your family. In fact, even if there is no relative in the family, if there is an elderly person, then we should take care of them by meeting their essential needs.

I wish you the best of luck for the competition.

Bendiciones para usted y su familia, que hermoso gesto de bondad el de dar apoyo a personas ancianas y que aunque no sean familia, no dudaron en ayudar.

Las relaciones entre amigos y familiares cunado son verdaderas y duraderas, se crea un vínculo muy fuerte, y por ello se muestran amorosos y ayudan en los momentos más difíciles.

Saludos y éxitos en el desafío.

Hola amigo, espero te encuentres muy bien. Qué increíble historia la que nos cuentas y es muy lamentable que el amigo de tu padre haya sido rechazado por su familia, que haya perdido a sus propios padres y no pueda compartir más con sus hermanos pero me alegra que ustedes lo traten como una familia lo hagan sentir amado y atendido, es muy noble de su parte.

Saludos y bendiciones.


Assalamu'alaikum dear alisha. Saya senang bahwa keluarga anda mau menjaga dan menerima orang yang bahkan bukan keluarga anda untuk tinggal di rumah anda.

Itu adalah sebuah amalan baik yang dianjurkan dalam agama kita. Karena pada dasarnya kita semuanya bersaudara, tidak hanya karena faktor pertalian darah, hubungan perkawinan dan lain-lain.

Sebagai sesama manusia kita harus saling membantu dan saling menjaga apalagi seperti Baba yang telah bekerja bersama ayah anda bertahun-tahun lamanya.
Semoga anda beruntung dengan kontes ini. Salam.. 🙏

Thanks for your precious feedback😊♥️