Steemit Engagement Challenge S6/W3 - Effects of parents behavior on child's physical and mental health

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Greetings to all the kids and their parents. I hope you all are doing well. Today I am going to participate in S6/W3 engagement challenge which is an important topic to discuss.

How has your parent's behavior affected you? (Positively or negatively?)

Parents are one the most beautiful blessing for us by Allah and they are the most precious for everyone on Earth. I am blessed to have such kind-hearted and beautiful parents. They are the ones whom I loved the most in the World. They are the whole World to me.

I enjoyed my childhood just because of my parent's well behavior and care. I didn't spend much time with my father as first he was working on the farms, he didn't get much time to spend with us and then Allah took my father back.

^{Me and my beautiful mother at a wedding event}

My parent's behavior influences me positively. There was a balance between my parents my mother was a short temper and was innocent but my father was a cool-minded and intelligent person. I took intelligence from my father as an inheritance. I think there should be one person more wise and intelligent than both spouses.

My mother is a strong woman who takes care of all of us after my father died, I know she misses him so much but she is not expressive much like me. My father was a strong man who take the right decisions on time and also help other people with their problems either domestic or business-related. I am here because of my parent's behavior and training.

Which of your parent's behavior do you like most?

My mother and father both are good to me. But I think I like my father's behavior more because he was a generous, wise, intelligent, and cool-minded person. I am also a little bit short tempered person but I learn how to control my anger and deal with each situation without creating a mess.

I was not strong much before my college life but my father groomed, guided, and teach me about society. He was always with me whenever I need. For me, the man I loved the most in the World is my father no one can take his place in my life. He was the strong shelter for me who protects me and encourage me to do everything and he was just behind me to help out.

What's the best way parents can impart good Values to their kids?

I think the most important and best way to import good values to your kids is by understanding their point of view, their perspective, and their choices. Because I have seen some parents implant their thoughts on their kids and they didn't try to understand their kid's mentality even.

I am lucky to have such parents who always support me in every aspect of life. I choose MBBS as a profession even though I didn't get admission but my father was with me to encourage me that can try again, and he will be with me.

^{Teaching my nephew to who to take care of his sister}

The second best way to teach their kids good values is by practical examples. I have seen my nephews and nieces learn what we do in front of them. If you are fighting in front of them then obviously they learn to fight only nothing else. If you teach them to stay calm and deal with each problem wisely then they will do it.

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^{Please stop fighting infront of kids}

Show respect towards each other and to other family members as well. I have seen kids become aggressive, annoyed, and angry all the time if you show disrespect to others, they will copy the same thing. The most thing for kids' physical and mental health is a healthy environment. If you fight all the time and think your kids will not adopt it then you are wrong. You have to become a role model for your kids.

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^{Provide kids a healthy environment}

The early 2 years of kids' life are the most important for them to learn each thing. Deal with them in a friendly way, and fulfill their wishes but not beyond the limits. This thing will make them moody, stubborn, and aggressive. This will affect their whole life, and their physical and mental health as well.

Teach your kids to become punctual about their work. If you show through your behavior that you are punctual then your kids will also adapt it. I have seen and also learn that you have to complete your work on time, be ready on time, and didn't put your work on the next day because it makes you sluggish and irresponsible.

The best way to import good values is to teach them to show respect towards their elders even towards younger ones. If they give the respect they will get respect. Also, focus on their healthy environment and meals because they are also important for kids' health. As I already told me the best way to teach your kids is through practicals, examples, and, correcting them if you think they are doing wrong.

Write a short message to your parent

Baba (father) I loved you even more than mama but I can't say this to you in your life. I missed you a lot. You were the most special person in my life, you were a shelter for me who protects me from this crucial World. You know I was not much strong but life teaches me a lot of lessons. I missed the conversation between you, me, and mama after returning from college and school. I wanted to meet you soon again and don't want to leave you.

Mama, you are the strong lady in the World who take care of us and always encourage us in every aspect of life. I pray to Allah to bless you with a healthy and long life because I can't bear your loss in my life. You both are the most precious gift for me from Allah and I can't express my feelings but I love you more ❣️.

I invite my friends @uzma4882, @sanabl, @iqrarana786 to participate in this week engagement challenge and share your thoughts on this topic.