Firstly i appreciate @ngoenyi for this lovely contest.

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I love children a lot tho am yet to have my own child.

Child bearing is a blessing granted to all women by our Heavenly Creator.

God bless all woman with a womb that can bear a child.

But in some situations reverse is the case,because of satans world where we have so many forces and health issues that have prevented many from having children.

Some have also made the choice of not bearing children at the earliest stage of there marriage,because of personal issues they want to resolve.

Some couples also have decided not to have children because of some special privilege of service that makes them travel from one end to another.

All this are the decisions made by the couple.

When should this decision be make,and what questions should be discussed?

Child bearing comes with both financial,emotional,and physical responsibilities and is a project that last for at least 20yrs, so the couple should decide before marriage what they really want like

• How many children they will like to have.
• When they will start making children.
• What if something happened that might deprive them from having children.
• What health issues they have that needs attention and when to handle them.
• Plans on how to assist each other during child bearing.
• The kind of educations they will like the children to obtain.

My advice

Anyone who wants to build a house must sit down and calculate the expense before starting.

A child needs much attention both physically and emotionally.
Children needs a secured home,so the couple's should discuss about how to provide the necessary things.

In marriage so many challenges comes after marriage especially when children start coming and during the first year of marriage.

Its very wise not just to focus on the joy that comes from marriage life but to discuss seriously and prayerfully those challenges that might come and how to handle them.

I hereby invite @essygold,@vickydear @meymeyshop to join in this contest.

Thank you @ngoenyi

Cc.

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