The contest child bearing can it be by choice or lot or both presented by me @chocolatebrown 20/07/21 organized by @ngoenyi

Hello everyone ,hope we all are farring well.am glad that I can participate in this contest. my answer for the question child bearing can it be choice or lot or can it be both? Is BOTH.
Truthfully speaking the joy a child brings to the family can never be underestimated. I remember when I put to birth the kind of joy I experience . but i also strongly believe it's best to discuss about it before getting into marriage.
Some couples might decide not to have any kids at all because they want to use their life to serve God full time and don't need any distraction.it might also be because of some reasons best known to them.this group I can say it's their choice because they decided not to have a child
Some might also decide not to start having babies immediately after marriage some as yo enjoy and spend quality time with themselves before they'll start making babies.
Jesus the greatest teacher said something about this when he walked the earth when he said "for their eunuchs who are born eunuchs,and there are eunuchs who where made eunuchs by men,and there are eunuchs who made themselves eunuchs I account of the kingdom of the heavens".
Some naturally can't bear children that's because they might have been affected by birth defect.every cell is n the body had chromosomes that contains genes that determines a person's Unique characteristics.do during conception a child inherits one of each pair.an error during this process can cause a baby with too few or too many chromosomes or with a damaged chromosome.
So for people in this category I can say it's their lot.
For this type of person the might have the desire to bear children but can't and if they should marry blindly without carring some medical text that marriage might in disarray because of that.
MY ADVICE TO ALL WHO ARE NOT YET MARRIED.
Discuss together with the person you intend to marry what your plans are, whether you will like to have kids or not . And if yes, how many kids you would like to have and how to raise them.

I will also advice that you carry out fertility test before getting married if you have the intention to have babies.

I already have two kids. That's my daughter my son will never let you snap him.they give me joy.and thanks to Jehovah for the wonderful gift
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