"Contest: Can fear of lose make your relationships more closed and trustable?by @deprince

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The fear of loss is something that is natural and also a universal human emotion that can either drive us apart or bring us closer together.

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It may seem counterintuitive,the fear of losing our partners can actually bring you closer together thereby fostering a more trusting and secure connection. In this my article,I will explore how acknowledging and addressing this fear can lead to a more fulfilling and resilient relationship.

The fear of loss

The fear of loss is a natural response to the possibility of separation or rejection. It's just like when we invest our emotions, time,and energy into a relationship,the thought of losing our partner can be daunting and it stems from past experiences, insecurities,or the uncertainty of the future.

Understanding fear

While fear can drive us apart,it can also bring us closer together. When we confront and address our fear of loss,we can:

➡️Communicate more openly and honestly
➡️Embrace vulnerability and intimacy
➡️Develope a deep Understanding of each other's needs and desires.
➡️Take responsibility for our actions and emotions

The list is endless to Understanding what fear really is

Building trust through vulnerability

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Vulnerability is the cornerstone of trust. When we share our fears, insecurities,and doubts with our partner,we are creating a safe space for open communication and connection. When we acknowledge our fear of loss,we can:

➡️Develope a growth mindset and work through challenges together.
➡️Break down defenses and build trust
➡️Encourage teamwork and collaboration
➡️foster a sense of security and stability

Embracing the fear of loss
As partners, instead of allowing fear control us,we can harness it to strengthen our relationship by acknowledging and addressing our fear of loss and if we are able to do this,we can:

➡️ Develope a sense of purpose and meaning into the relationship

➡️Develope a greater appreciation for our partner and the relationship

Create a shared vision for the future

➡️Focus on the present moment and cherish time together

In conclusion, relationship's are meant to be enjoyed by both parties involved not the other way around. Both party should feel loved and wanted.

I am inviting @ninapenda, @abdullahw2 and @radjasalman to take part.