@NGOENYI CONTEST SERIES #1: A CHILD|| CHILD BEARING, CAN IT BE BY CHOICE OR BY LOT OR BOTH? BY @gracyakan

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IS CHILD BEARING A CHOICE THAT COUPLES SHOULD MAKE OR BY LOT OR BOTH?

Me and my husband

Child bearing should be a thing of joy that makes family happy for bringing a new person and obeying God's commandments that says we should become many filled the earth and subdue it.
So it is the choice that should be make by couples.

WHY?

• Because it's the responsibility of the couple's to take care of their children by giving them the Paramount and quality care that children need starting from when the child is in uterus that is during pregnancy, labour, delivery neonate, baby, child, and adolescent.

Me and my kids we took descision as a couple

• Having a child without agreement can leads to problem in marriage like fighting, rejection of the child,separation and among all divorce.

• The child physical, emotional, psychological, social and spiritual need will be taken care of by none other than the parent to ensure their well being.

• The couple's know about their financial status and the number of children that can be taken care of.

• The couples are the right people that will decide if the want to make babies or not and their decisions will be final.

• Is the parent that will give their children quality education and quality care and this needs money inoder to achieve it.

WHEN SHOULD THIS QUESTION BE CONSIDERED?

Me and hubby

This question should be considered before marriage.
The couple's have to delebrate over it and then decide if they will have children or not,the number of children they want to have, spacing and the family planning method they will do to avoid unwanted pregnancy.

WHAT IS YOUR ADVICE TO COUPLES WHO INTEND TO MAKE DECISION ABOUT BEARING A CHILD OR CHILDREN?

• Couple's should know that making decision about child bearing is not something that another person should decide but only them can do that.

• They should know that it's their responsibility to take care of their children and provide all their needs.

• They should make this decision before marriage and plan on how they will care for them.

• They should not make this decision under pressure or follow after the crowd, they have to consider so many things before taking the descision.

Me and hubby

Me and hubby

I invite my friends @vickydear, @vogel and @luis16 to join this contest

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