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Hello my my good people of Steemit and all kids lovers, trust you are doing great,

It is a thing of Joy to participate in this lovely Contest organised by @ngoenyi

TOPIC: IS CHILD BEARING A CHOICE THAT COUPLE MAKE OR IS IT BY LOT OR BOTH? WHY?

THERE ARE FOUR THINGS THEY NSED TO KNOW

What is couple?

So in marriage it means bringing two different human being with different habits, different backgrounds, sometimes different languages to come together to make one dicision and live by it

What is lot?

What is Child bearing?

Another word for child bearing is Reproduction, being pregnant,or giving birth to a Child,so now the couple will ask themselves are we ready for this?

Who is a child?

A child is that baby boy or girl who can not take care himself or herself, that son or daughter who is not matured to take up responsibility.

With all the points I listed above,Is child bearing a choice that couple make or by lot or both?

CHILD BEARING IS A CHOICE NOT BY LOT,WHY?

This is because Child bearing calls for additional responsibilities on the couples,it requires, time, wisdom, knowledge and trust in the giver of life,so if they are not ready for it, they should not , never allow mother in-law, father in-law, sister in-law, Family members to decide for them, because is their responsibility to care for the child

When should this question be considered? Before or after marriage?

This question should be considered very well before marriage to avoid future problems that may lead to divorce.

What is your advice to couples who intend to make decisions to near a child or children?

In conclusion,I am happy to participate in this contest, thank you @steemkids,@ngoenyi @mariajruzb

Written by me @ ijealady