Child bearing contest: entry by @kyara2

Thank you very much @ngoenyi for this contest. I humbly appreciate it and I am giving my view about whether child bearing is by choice or a lot and when to consider questions about child bearing.

Is child bearing a choice, lot or both? And why?

In the first place, child bearing refers to a process of conceiving and giving birth to a child. In this modern era, to a larger extent child bearing is by choice because it requires two people to agree and make children . Many people make their choices both directly and indirectly.
A direct choice can be through sitting down and the parents to be decide on when they are ready to have their children and so take precautions on how to avoid conceiving before the period they had planned.

However an indirect choice occurs when partners are staying together and they involve into unprotected intimacy. The results of intimacy without protection are conceiving so that is also a choice and in most cases these people start planning about their children when the woman has conceived.

I strongly agree that child bearing is a choice not a lot because parents to be sit down and plan on when to have children and they work hard to provide for their families so that by the time they get children, they can look after them financially and emotionally when the children have any problems such as sickness. Parenting is not an easy task to do so most people plan for the future family before childbearing.

When should this question be considered?

Personally, I would consider this question before conceiving so that I avoid future uncertainties such as failure to provide for my needs and my children’s needs. Childbearing needs to be taken step by step. It needs a person who is ready to raise children, has a stable mindset and is patient with kids. In most cases it is hard to understand kids because some are very quiet which is so disturbing to the parents because their children do not associate with others to play and at the same time some are very stubborn causing headache to their parents but all in all they are all kids and need parental love and guidance.

What’s your advice to couples who intend to make the decision to bear a child or children

I would advise couples who intend to make the decision of childbearing to first work hard and then lay a plan on how to raise their children. Planning in advance helps couples avoid uncertainties. These uncertainties can bring about splitting up because the couple didn’t understand each other before childbearing. Couples have to be patient with each other and help one another where necessary.

I would still advise couples to always support each other in every situation so that they learn to grow to trust each other and decide well about childbearing. This helps them have stable minds and be ready of the outcomes and so they are strong enough and very ready to have children at any time due to the fact that they can stand up for each other.

Thank you again @ngoenyi for this contest in the @steemkids community. I am inviting @vianneyspirit, and @starrchris to participate.