Children Are a Trust From God, we Parents Are Obliged to Look After And Educate our Children

Why do I ask like that?

Because what I will discuss this time is about mandates. So, in my opinion, it is permissible. In fact, if you entrust a mandate, power, anything, not to an expert, then destruction will occur. So, if we are unable, measure ourselves. Sometimes just because we want to, but we are unable. For example, becoming a regional leader, I don't want to.

Because if later I, I am not sure I can keep the mandate, or whatever, it is better to reject it, especially children. For example, this child is very naughty, I can afford his physical sustenance, but his spiritual sustenance is difficult to educate him. Or I can educate him, but this is expensive. Nowadays, kids are already playing with I-pads, I-phones, or gadgets when they are little, all of that requires a lot of money. If you are not capable, it is better not to accept the mandate.

Now, how to reject it nicely. So if there is something entrusted to you, reject it in a better way. Yesterday I was offered to star in an Aceh film, but I had to sing, I didn't want to. But if for example someone entrusts me with a child, someone else's child. So we have to measure our capability, not only the burden, but also the responsibility. That has to be thought about carefully, it has to be considered carefully.

I was once betrayed by a friend, cheated on. And I think, in life it turns out we learn, we become good, that's because we have been treated badly by people, we have met bad people. That's why we can enjoy, what good means. If we understand the meaning of black, surely we know white, right?

So we can't be good people, without going through those things or processes.

So if I say I've been hurt, I've been betrayed, that's a lesson for us. So because life is a choice, a choice that we will continue to be friends with people like that, or we keep our distance, limit them, because that way it's better. With far in the eyes close to the heart. Yes because in my opinion, a religious person, a person who I see has a good personality. Who is polite, who is respectful.

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For example, if you hold a thousand dollars, it must remain that thousand dollars, even if it's a hundred silver, the same. That's a matter of money, not to mention a matter of promises, a matter of secrets. Wow, that trust is very heavy. Then later, don't measure religion, how many times he has performed the hajj, or umrah. For example, the hajj, but the money is corruption.

In fact, he is no longer trustworthy, let alone with other promises or trusts related to daily life.

Even artists, are deceived by one trust that was betrayed. Starting from fraudulent investments, but in fact they were also betrayed, not to mention other trusts. That's why if someone entrusts us with a mandate, we shouldn't accept it right away, but think about it, and consider it.

Greetings always compact.

By @midiagam