Steemit Engagement Challenge (SEC) WK14:#1: Neglect in families, effects on kids

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When either or both parents neglect their role of providing and caring for their kids in the family, there are always unpleasant consequences that follow.

Part of the cause of the decay in our society today is the negligence of parents. Most children who venture into crime, prostitution and other unwholesome practices are mostly products of neglected homes.

Neglect within families is a silent crisis that can have a serious and lasting effect on children. Neglect of responsibilities in a family setting can manifest in various forms, from emotional and physical neglect to the failure of providing essential care and attention to your spouse or children.

Neglect within a family occurs when essential responsibilities, such as provision of basic needs, emotional support, are consistently overlooked or ignored. This can lead to an environment where children feel unseen, unheard, and emotionally detached, which can significantly impact their overall wellbeing.

Numerous times, I have experienced parents neglect their kids and this neglect from parents later turns out to shape the life of that individual. It shapes his perception of relationships, self-worth, and trust. I have heard about a story of a boy who committed suicide after being neglected by his parents for years. He felt that if his own parents didn't care, then who would.

The effect of neglect on children can be profound, impacting their emotional, social, and mental development. Research has shown that children who experience neglect may struggle with forming healthy relationships, face challenges in academic and personal growth and exhibit signs of depression and anxiety.

My advice to neglectful parents:

If you find yourself neglecting your responsibilities towards your children, it is essential to recognize the potential harm and take steps to rectify the situation. Seek support, whether through counseling, parenting classes, or by involving your relatives. Make open communication with your children your priority, this would help foster an environment where their emotional and physical needs are acknowledged and met.

My advice to neglected children:

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I was once said in your shoes, and I know how bad you feel when you turn to see other parents caring and always being there for their kids. It is not your fault. Talk to someone about it, can be a trusted adult, it must not be someone close to your parents for fear they would report it to them. Focus on building resilience and self-esteem, understanding that your worth is not defined by the neglect you've experienced. Additionally, consider reaching out to support groups or organizations that specialize in helping children facing neglect.

Neglect in families is a very serious issue with undesirable consequences. By acknowledging the problem, promoting open communication, seeking support, both parents and children can work towards avoiding neglect in the family.