Steemit Engagement Challenge (SEC) WK14:#1: Neglect in families, effects on kids

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Assalamu Alaikum everyone. Today I'm going to participate in the Steemit Engagement Challenge (SEC)-w14s1 in the Steem Kids & Parents community. In which we have to answer some questions as a challenge. So the challenge I am accepting today is Neglects in families, the effects on kids. So let me finish my challenge by answering some questions.

👉What does neglect of responsibility in a family mean🙇?

Neglect of responsibility towards a child in the family means a bad influence prevails on his future. Although I am a child of a Muslim family, my Islam teaches me that neglecting one's responsibility towards a child is very dangerous. In fact, every mother and father would never voluntarily neglect their children. Good upbringing towards children, shaping their behavior, teaching about the character traits of children. Besides it is a duty towards a child to teach his parents how to lead a decent and respectable life.

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And I think these are the main responsibilities of a father and mother. Neglecting these responsibilities has resulted in many disasters in many families. Which is not good for any childs future. I suppose that the child has the same responsibility as his father and mother. besides fathers and mothers have a responsibility towards their children. In essence, everyone should be responsible.

Have you been neglected or seen someone neglected? What are it is effects on children?

Multiplex times its seen that due to family conflict or fiscal problems they can not focus on their children duly. Due to which neglect of responsibility has a serious impact on the child. However, I have never been subjected to such a situation nor have I seen anyone being neglected. But I have a sense of its horror. I have presented below how it affects the children :

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• The first effect of neglect of responsibility is the deterioration of the child's education. Because due to negligence, the child cannot pay much attention to his studies.

• Being cut off from social contact due to neglect of parental responsibilities. As a result the children cannot mix with anyone in the society.

• The relationship between the child and the father and mother begins to deteriorate.

• Sometimes kids lose their emotional balance. Because of which their childhood times are disrupted.

👉Your advice is for parents who neglect their responsibilities towards their children.

My advice would be to parents who have discovered that their children have been neglected and want to correct it. In fact, there is certainly an easy way out of this unintentional neglect that can solve this problem. Below I have presented some suggestions :

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• In similar situations every parents should be more involved in the life of their children. Spend most of the time with them.

• Consult a psychologist to understand their responsibilities.

• Parents should discuss how to give a child enough time.

• Also every father and mother needs to know about their likes and dislikes so that they do not neglect their responsibilities.

• There should be no comparison of own child with other children. By doing this, they can be discouraged.

👉 Your advice to neglected children

My advice to neglected children is that they should not lose their confidence in these situations. Although every parent should extend a hand of sympathy to all neglected children. We should show them more love. So that they never feel that they are neglected. In this way no anxiety or fear will work in the minds of children.

I would like to finally say that a child's bright future depends only on his father and mother. Children will develop their own mentality in the same way that they are given the environment from their childhood. So we all should understand the mentality of these neglected children so as to make a positive impact in their lives.

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