Having said that, you don't have to let other people's standards determine your value, because you deserve more. If the salt reaches the sugar level, it will spoil the beautiful soup. Pretty much the reason people miss out on the good things in life is because they leave their true selves to someone else's pursuit.
If you allow the other person's nature to take precedence over your own, the best you can achieve is the second version of that person and the fact that you will sink into the other person's essence, not your own. You'll agree with me that no matter how big the copy and no matter how skilled you are, it can't be better than the original. For this reason, even if the real paper is wrinkled and dirty, it retains its value and even if the fake card is clean and tidy, it will not be preferred over the original bill.
If some people do not see their own value or think that they are worthless, it is because they allow others to judge their own thinking. If you judge all animals based on their ability to fly, other animals that cannot fly, such as fish and wildlife, will be considered useless and worthless.
The truth is, just because you don't match someone else's standards and qualifications doesn't make you a failure. Even if a fish can't fly, it can still swim, which a bird can't, so it's not a failure. The reason to live is not to hold a place or to fit someone's standards, but to make a difference and make an impact. However, all this is only possible if you discover yourself, believe in yourself, and make an effort to realize your true self.
It should be noted that there is a certain obligation that you have to fulfill, that is why you live and not only exist, but if you do not fulfill it, it creates a void. If you see yourself like this, you don't care what other people think of you.
Always remember that your destination is very different from others, so you don't have to go with them. Just because someone arrives at their destination doesn't mean you're wasting time, so you don't have to accept their destination as yours. That's why you need to know where you're going first and know when you'll get there, so no one is forcing you to settle for less. A friend of mine said:
If you don't know where you are going, you will appear everywhere like this. The journey to achieving your life goal begins with self-discovery and self-awareness. The beauty of life is not when you compete with others, but when you reach them. The reason you have strengths while others have weaknesses is to master them, not compete with them.
In life, no matter where you come from, it is all about achieving a specific goal. For example, in the human body, the stomach does not seem to contribute like some other organs, but if you do not eat food, the whole body will be weak and will not function well. Likewise, even if others don't see your immediate value, it doesn't mean that you are worthless. So always remember that you are a precious and valuable person.
Thank You.
You made lots of beautiful illustrations in your writeups. Clearly in today's world, many look them on themselves because of their inability to become like another. They regard themselves as failures and not capable but as you have emphasized, everyone is valuable, unique and precious so we shouldn't underestimate ourselves otherwise others will hire us to build their dreams. Thanks for sharing... Every paragraph, you highlighted points that touched me.
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I'm so glad to hear that @bossj23. I'm also glad you stopped by. Have a wonderful day.
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