This is a very necessary and interesting question to ask. It is a necessary question because people around you will definitely be wondering why you are suddenly in good mood and smiling out loud if they don’t know the reason behind your smile and the happy mood. Secondly i say it interesting because as a normal person why shouldn’t you be seen happy by or in a good mood most often but always sad and worried?
This is basically how i will like to put the above asked question into. As people we are being taught to be always seen with smile on our faces. By doing so we tend to be nice to the people around us. Here is the case that you can’t put out that smile if you are sad or worried, which i will say in bad mood. There are some things that causes us to be in good mood. Some of which can be hearing a good news or something good happening to you, like being gifted with something.
But is it that really necessary to be in a good even if nothing good has happened to you or you have not received any gift?. I will like to say that it is very necessary for us to try and be in good mood most times. Just because for the people around us. When ever we are in bad mood we mostly been upset by every little thing that comes our way. Been it play or not. When we are up set, we then try to fight back which is bad. But whenever we are happy or in a good mood even without a reason, people around us tend to be drawing closer to us and will like to be always around us, which is a very good character of a person.
What are those situations that usually put you in a good mood and how do you express it?
I am mostly put into a good mood based on something special I have on my mind. Something special like a gift I am to receive from someone or a nice movie I have to watch, or even some memories I have ever had. I can always be triggered to be in a good by just experiencing something funny at a very particular moment. There are actually a lot of things that causes me to be in a good mood.
But above all, I choose to be in a good mood because of the people around me. I don’t want them to be scared or to be in doubt of getting closer to me. Which is mainly why i want to be in a good mood most at times.
What is your opinion of the following phrase by Alfredo Garzón: "Whoever does not have humor is in the process of dying" ?
I agree with Alfredo Garzón’s phrase because humor defines our current moods or states. It could be that one had a bad news that has really disturbed them emotionally to the extend that they are not ready to be around people or get interactive with people. Without them expressing it gives opportunity to people to come around them. Meanwhile they want to be left alone.
But being in a good mood or humor is definitely the best. With that, you get to forget about most of your problems and challenges and try to move on. So I definitely agree with the phrase.
How do you express when you feel in a good mood?
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It was a decision from me in the first place to be in a good mood. So I try to react positively towards whatever thing that comes my way at that particular moment. Also I try as much as hard to not spoil that particular moment by trying to enjoy that moment for long time. Also when I am not interested in a situation which is happening at a particular moment I try to cope for a little while just to show a little sense of humor and then walk away when it is not getting comfortable anymore.
Do you think humor has helped you solve some situations? Tell us which ones?
Good or positive humor has helped me solve so many situations. From which I will like to talk about one of the situation which is about how my roommate in school and I live together. We use to be two in a room due to some financial issues. Which I will say wasn’t something I was actually comfortable with. This is the case that he is most at times been visited by friends or coming back to the room with friends. Which i didn’t actually like or was comfortable with.
This was because some of them make a lot of noise. It could be that I had wanted to take a nap but due to the noise they are making I tend to find it difficult to sleep. Also how they interacting with the things in the room wasn’t that appropriate at all. Like how they dis arrange your bed and other things you have set in place. But because i didn’t want it to feel like i don’t like it when people come to our, I most try hard to be in a good humor around them, that is whenever they visit us. Which has really helped me a lot. I never had an issue with any of them due to the humor I showed towards them. So it is best we try to put out a good humor around situations we find uncomfortable with.
In conclusion, it is always expected from us as people to always try to be in a good mood for it brings or have positive influence on us. I will also like to say that if in case we can’t do that that is force or selves to be in a good mood, then we should try and stay away from people for a while. But we shouldn’t make that a habit as well. That’s always trying to stay away from people for it will left us being alone without any one wanting to be around us.
I invite @kodua, @mewow and @asaregabi to participate in this contest.
El buen humor es una actitud positiva que logramos transmitir a otros, y que nos ayuda a mostrar la mejor faceta de nosotros mismos.
Es bueno que hayas logrado mantenerte de buen humor aun cuando las acciones de los amigos de tu compañero no eran las más acordes.
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Indeed it is, and thank you for the positive comments 😊
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