⬇️ FEELGOOD : All you need is LESS and all you need is LOVE To find yourself and ...

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to recognize your own true claims,
it helps to break a habit.
The habit is called : comparing.

The problem: The more we have, the more we want. Satisfaction in the present moment is not possible for many ambitious people, because they constantly want to reach new goals that are even higher and because they constantly compare themselves with others.

You're dissatisfied with yourself and want to be like the others -
but comparing just makes it worse.

Inner conflicts arise. Self-efficacy means to stay in the power to be with yourself, to be with your inner core of energy.

It is about your own competence and not about adapting the competences of other people.

It's always about the triad:

1. Not losing yourself,
2. not leaping over yourself and your own needs
3. not cheating on yourself.

Not cheating on yourself also means not seeking your energy and stability from others. Many people look at others because they feel the need to lean on others as if the centre of their gravity were somewhere else than within themselves.

They expect their environment to provide them with what they believe they do not have: inner will, strength, the ability to act in a goal-oriented manner.

Each of us carries a personal power within - and it is this power that needs to be unlocked and tapped.

So: Less distraction and less self irritation through envious or longing comparisons.