"The veil and veil"

Yesterday, some people said that how will we know who is a character and who is not?
Why do you want to know? The one who is in your marriage is yours and his honor is now your honor and your honor is not tossed in a crowded party. Why should we distribute the certificate of someone's character? This is a matter between the servant and God, so let it remain between them. Either believe in the mikafat process that what is as it is will be received as it is? However, sometimes it can be a trial that good people get bad and bad people get good.
Allah has kept the veil of man. Many of his sins have been covered up. So why do we humans try to undress each other? Who among us is perfect? If someone is considering himself perfect in today's era, then he can be an angel and not a human being. Can I say one thing? If it comes to the matter of obtaining character certificate, then "we are all naked in this bath".

Just remember that the best husband and wife are those who come out of the room themselves, but their mutual affairs and conversations in the room remain inside. Spouses with whom their talk and affairs also come out of the room can never have a happy married life. Husband and wife are each other's clothes. Stripping each other is not the name of husband and wife. Bleeding is not a sign of character and absence of bleeding is not a sign of bad character of a woman.
Don't dwell on your spouse's past. Live in the present and the future and discuss the same. Past and future mistakes are your business to think about but let the past be the past. Keep your thinking broad and your mind high. Small and mean thinking makes a person skeptical and then he assumes whatever he wants, draws fictitious conclusions and destroys his own life and the lives of others by considering it as the final result. .

Boys are requested to man themselves and if the elderly women of the house try to ask you such questions, bluntly answer that it is a matter of me and my wife. Otherwise, even if there is no bleeding, to satisfy their false ego and pride, tell them that it happened. Give them a chance to be happy and keep their spirits up. If we humans do not forgive the mistakes of humans, then perhaps we too will hardly get forgiveness.
Be safe.