A brother told his short story

in hive-142013 •  2 days ago 


A brother told his short story and asked where I did wrong that I should not have done and that someone else can learn from my story like me. Said Sir, I got engaged when I got a small job. When the marriage was to take place, the girl's parents built their own house before the demand. Demolition of old house. It was not possible to build a house with marriage money.

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When the money was short, he took a loan from his relatives. If you were already in loan, where would you get married? When the girls insisted on getting married, they took some loans from friends and the bank for the wedding. Now where was it possible to take home and marriage loan from your salary? I thought I would go to a foreign country. Medical protector visa ticket Iqama total expenditure was one million rupees. He sold his wife's jewelry of his mother and took some more loans from his in-laws and came to Saudia.

It will take me three years to pay off all the debt and go back on holiday. I have no talent. And I am doing a small job for twelve hundred riyals.

People who have to pay back their original loan now. Later, for many years, they will have to lend more when they need it. If they don't give, they will disrespect that when you had a hard time, we supported you, now we are in need, so they are not giving us money.

Was saying I'm very depressed. How a good life was buried under debt. And after a new marriage, I left my pregnant wife and moved thousands of miles away for several years.

In my own observation there are many similar stories. That a middle or lower middle class boy gets mired in similar debt during the marriage and house building phase. One thing that is almost common. Such boys have no skill in their hands. Which can increase the income. There is a small job and a small education which does not have a value more than a monthly salary of more than 30,000 to 40,000.

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