In this world there are many different people, there are those who are kind, rude, greedy, selfish and there are those who try to be hard thinking you are not around. These are the people who protect their hearts from being overwhelmed at the end of the day.
For almost 28 years I lived in this world and life had given me problems that caused me to lose full control of my heart. I have easily given hope to others, I have easily given love to others, someone special or friends. And by not watching my heart deeply turns my life upside down and at the end of the day it is YOU yes YOU, YOU ALWAYS suffer for that behavior.
BE KIND
Everyone has our kindness in our hearts but as time goes on and because of the experience and experience in life you choose to change and you need to change to benefit yourself. Because there are people who always take advantage of your kindness and because you do not guard your heart against those people, they think it is right for you even to do something that breaks your heart. By guarding your heart in this situation you need to be wise enough to choose and trust.
GIVING HOPE
Social media is one of the best examples today that many users use this just to trust them. Themes, Video Calls, Conversations, Fake News etc. In mobile games you easily trust a co-worker after months of playing with you and dating, without investigating whether the person is single or married or based on a relationship (based on what I've learned). Video calls and chats, after spending time together for months and with all the butterflies in your stomach and kilig bones the conversation gives you so much hope without triggering if this person is available, single, married or just playing time. (they were based on what I learned and haha). Fake news, you trust the issue on social media because it goes beyond what you think is legal and leads you to disappointment, like scammers giving money or a job.
Because you quickly get used to someone you trust and in that case you fail to "BEAT YOUR HEART" you end up hurting yourself and breaking your heart.
LOVE WITHOUT LIMITATION
It is NOT a problem to love but always set a limit. There are people who are always blind when it comes to dating. But this Falling inlove should have its limits. Why? Because we cannot predict what will happen next, we do not know whether that person will stay with us forever. You would like to but set aside some part of your heart for yourself. If you feel unhappy do not make it difficult for both of you but if you think there is a way to make it work go ahead. But keep in mind that you need to set boundaries if this one does not work? Can I still be happy? Is my heart right? Not because it will collapse if that happens.
That is why in order to guard your heart you are always limited in what you can lose. Dont gave so much because in the end if it is not really intended for you, you will be seriously injured. And some even kill their lives because of this love thing "kasi halos kaluluwa ibibigay niya wag lang mawala ang taong mahal niya" and that is not love after all.
Such a person
I really liked this kind of person how he handled it? How do they cope? Why they choose to be tough by guarding their hearts.
This is based on my experience and my sister has this personality. We have lived together since I was a child and I know her very well, she is a smart child, a good sister, loving and sweet .But because of our life experience she has chosen to be hard to deal with. We faced a broken family, my mother left us to work abroad for how many years until now just to support us, we heard many words from our aunt and MARITES around us, and that our family was always looked down upon by others. And it changed him a lot. Choosing to be independent, he graduated from college without letting others stand next to him because throughout his journey he was the only one with him (except me because I was always by his side). ubuntu. And that's why I love her so much but I know my sister is a good person. He does not allow grief to hurt him.
CLOSING THOUGHTS
Guarding your heart does not mean losing your trust in others. It is a way to protect your heart from being damaged many times. And for me it makes you a better person and able to survive whatever heartache you may face in the future. After all, always choose to love yourself and protect your heart like a fragile box.