The Difficulty of Understanding Women

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Every time I see a woman, sometimes I think that all women are good and extraordinary. But on the other hand, sometimes when I'm in a relationship with a woman, I find something that isn't what I expected, for example, he's cheating on me.

So in my opinion, if you have a motive to continue, you just have to be sure, if it's your own belief, that he will change. If it's 50:50, it's better not, so you just continue, if you are sure enough. And now a woman is showing signs that she has changed. So that's okay, but it still has to be tested by time, before marriage.

Give it a few months, let it be tested by time, it's true that the woman hasn't changed. Because as far as I know, I'm sorry, most of it isn't absolute. Cheating is like quotation marks, there is a virus. And it's not easy to cure it, someday it might recur again. But if he himself is determined, maybe I can accept it.

But that's universal, doesn't mean women cheat more often, or men cheat more often, yes, there are many things, for example. There are women who are flirtatious with other men, because she feels that with her man, she confides in no place, she happens to want to confide in you. Maybe he feels the perception is not suitable, he can't, someone stopped by.

Because like this, when we are empty, someone stops by and gives meaning, that person will be strong in our hearts. So, in order for the relationship to last, look at your partner's Facebook status, WhatsApp, "Owhh, he's just upset". Call right away, let us be the ones who fill his heart, so that we are stronger inside him. So once again, cheating is never intentional, intentions are always due to slips. So always be present when he is empty, then your figure will be strong again in his heart.

The mysterious thing is that a woman can make a lot of difference to a man. If you focus on differences, it will lead to fights, even separation. Focusing on similarities will only make your life boring quickly, therefore make differences as learning new things. Then make the similarities as fun to make the relationship more unified, Men and women are different, that's the first. Second, the difference is to be appreciated. And third, they can complement each other. If the woman is happy, the household will be happy. I am reminded of a very extraordinary statement

"The best way to love your child is to love his mother"

If a mother is happy enough and feels loved, she will automatically be patient with her child and love her child too. So as the head of the household, as a husband, it's very easy for you to understand your wife, or your woman, and it's no longer a mystery, when you want to improve your listening skills. The more we hear, the more sensitive we are to what he wants.

I also ask women for help, when you tell stories, or share, so you don't beat around the bush at length. Pause each sentence, Stop! pause. In order for men to go back up the frequency to listen again. Because without semicolons, we men would also be bored.

So in that way, we men finally like it, are addicted to hearing it, because you are boring. Well, that's then the communication will be strong. When communication is strong, there is no more guesswork, no more assumptions, so men understand their women.

There will always be differences between men and women, with logic and feeling, like men, like women. When men want to be acknowledged, women want to be understood. When women are difficult to understand, that's where the sensitivity of men is tested.

Thus....

Greetings always compact.

By @midiagam