To give up or not to give up?

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When is the best time to call it quits and move on? Is there even a best time to do so if you genuinely enjoy or love what you do or who you are? Aren't we supposed to fight for something (or someone) we love?

Giving up isn't as simple as we believe. It takes a lot of guts and the right mindset to move forward. It's just as difficult as forgiving, in my opinion. As a result, many people chose to resist rather than surrender. Fighting for what you want isn't wrong. Nobody knows you better than you know yourself. But, as with everything else, there is always a limitation.

Giving up does not always indicate weakness. It does not always imply that you are lacking in something. Giving up isn't always a bad thing. Instead, sometimes giving up means you're brave. You're brave enough to cut the rope. Courageous enough to choose peace instead. Sometimes giving up means you're ready for much better things, which is why you're refusing to fight for less. Giving up can be good for your soul and your health.

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As a result, this is case-by-case. It all depends on what you're willing to give up and what you're willing to give up. It may not always be pleasing to the eyes of others, but that's okay. It is you who is taking the risk, and you know what is best for yourself emotionally. You can seek advice, but in the end, it will always be your decision, and no one should judge you for it.

So, when is the best time to call it quits? I honestly have no idea. But I know that when it's no longer healthy, when you've been hurt so much that it affects you physically, mentally, and emotionally, you should consider giving up. I understand that if the risk is not worth it, consider giving up. If it's no longer inspiring you and you're unhappy, consider quitting. If you've tried everything and are still stuck, consider giving up. But before you give up, take a moment to reflect.

Acceptance is key. If you are willing to give up on something, you must accept that what you are giving up is less than the better thing for which you are willing to fight. Accept the fact that it was not intended for you. Yes, you lost, but that's okay because something better awaits you, and losing does not imply that you're a loser. Accept that you must take a step back in order to move forward. Accept so that you can proceed.

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Most of the time, however, it is difficult. Sometimes you just need to push a little harder to achieve what you gave up for, but you gave up at the wrong time. That's why I said it was difficult. Giving up without even thinking about it is also foolish. With that said, I believe the best time to give up is when you have exhausted all of your efforts, when you have fought hard but are still not making progress, and when it has become too exhausting for you.

Allow some time. Consider it thoroughly. Make a list of whys and why not to give up. Don't make rash decisions. Don't rush. Meditate. Seek advice. It's okay not to be okay. It's okay to be sad. It's fine to go through the motions. When you believe it is the right time and decision, give up. If you believe it is healthier for you, give up. Take your time processing the facts and making a decision.

Thanks for reading.