Steem4nigeria Accelerator Contest Week 41: Navigating Through Conflicts

Hi! Happy weekend my dear steemian for your time with me in this context and I want to appreciate the organizer of the context. Best wishes.

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How do you manage to stay calm during an argument?

First of all, I want to look at argument as a logical reasoning that is aim at convincing someone to accept a particular view.

During argument I can manage myself to stay calm by listening carefully to understand the topic of the discussion.

Having understand the topic I will try to reason with it to see it positivity and patiently will not take side.

If the argument is heated I will try to introduce any joke to dust the tension for a while. I will again pay a little to it to avoid being part of it.

And finally I will excuse myself from the arena.

Why is it important to listen carefully during a disagreement?

It's important to listen carefully during a disargument to be a able to understand the direction and see how beneficial it's to the presence reality.

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Further conflict may be prevented. Because reacting to it my spark another misunderstanding.

And also one have to be self- control. Controlling one's self will accord respect. One have to be composed to maintain credibility.

How does understanding someone else's feelings help in resolving conflicts?

Having understand one's feelings it will give one a sense of direction on possible ways in resolving a conflicting. Understanding the discussion will helps in providing solution to the conflict.

One will try to understand the feelings of both parties and intervene logically so as to enable the conflicting parties build a trust in you,and it will helps in dusting the conflict.

What can we do to control our anger during an argument.

One way to control anger during an argument is to take a breath. Your mind will cool down and it will prevent further argument.

You can also take a break by remaining calm and a take a deep thought for some minutes.

One have to reflect on the topic under contention. It will helps one to have a better understanding of it and helps control one's anger.

One again try and understand the problem by solving the solution by both parties in question.

One can relect on what have provoke you.
One can also walk away from the arena. Walking away from it, means detacthing from the discussion.

This is my story for the week and I will like to invite @dave-hanny @josepha and @simonnwigwe to join the contest.