Contest Alert: "When friends betray you"

Hello and warmest greetings everyone regarding to all my fellow amiable steemians colleagues across the globe, it's a pleasure to have you all in my blog which am also delighted and glad to participate in this amazing contest organized by @ruthjoe titled; When friends betray you which am i will be dropping my entry below so read and drop your valuable below as i share with you all my views.

We all have been betrayal or back stabbed in many occasions some came as a result of quarrel or fight while some happen unexpected without even expecting such from the person that happens to be the betrayal.

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in your understanding tell us what you understand by the word betrayal?

Betrayal as stated above is act of breaking trust or deliberate disloyalty such as cheating on your partner, lying to someone in other to benefit from it or gain trust, defending someone else who's gossiping about your friend, denying some because he or she is in problem or difficult moment and many more experiences that brings about betrayals among us.

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Have you ever been betrayed by anyone? Tell us what happened.

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Of course i have been betrayed by many people in different ways but the one i can't easily forget in a hurry was the betrayal i got from my very good friend called James when we were still in secondary school, there was day i felt sick and couldn't go to school that day so i gave James my mathematics assignment to submit together with his own because the teacher said he is going to use it as our first test and i can't afford to miss it otherwise i would have hold on till i recover.

So later in the day james came back and gave me one silly excuse that he forgot to submit my own when they was submit and he later realized it too late that's why he brought it back for me though i was very disappointed but i just took it as a mistake from him and hoping to plead with the teacher when i recover.

After two days i started feeling alright so when i return to school i went straight to the mathematics teacher office and complain to him about my health which he was very surprised because nobody told him that i was sick all this while and i have not been in school so he ask if am okay now i told yes and submitted the assignment to him so he ask me to go that when he is done he will bring it when he is coming to our next class later in the day.

I was very surprised when he send somebody to call me and when i got there he told me that instead of copying from someone work to submit why not i plead with him that i can't do the assignment and i was very surprised when he made this statement which he added by saying i copied from my friend James that was when i remembered i gave James my book before to submit for me not knowing he copied my work and submitted, so i explained to him what actually happened so he was shocked a d was very disappointed at James as well.

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we know that betrayal may lead to heartbreak, tell us ways to heal from such betrayal?

This issue break the trust i have for james as well as even leading to separation and keeping malice him even when he tried to apologize i never bothered listening to the apology he have to say because i don't want to have anything to do with him again at that moment.
But after sometimes and the advice i from both my parent and his parents i just have to let go of everything and forgave him because nobody knows what tomorrow have to offer and we later became friends again but the trust i have for him was not as strong like it used to be before.

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How do you deal with people who have broken your heart several times?

For those people that have broken my heart or done something wrong to me several times the best way i deal with them is by taking revenge and making sure they feel what i felt as well because how can someone keep making thesame mistake over and over again without even taking correction or amendment from the previous ones he or she did.
So just like i said i will make sure they feel the pain and heart broken i felt i think for me this is the best way to deal with someone who thinks he or she is wise, though some people repeat their mistakes or keep offending because you always forgive them when they apologize for you it might be good but for me it's is not the best option to consider.

I have come to the end of this amazing and interesting contest, ones again special thanks to the organizer @ruthjoe for such and astounding work.
I will also be inviting my fellow steemians colleagues @josepha @pandora2010 @emishael60 to take part in this contest as well.